Sit and Stay Pet Sitting

Sit and Stay Pet Sitting An experienced animal lover and pet owner for over 45 years, certified in pet sitting, pet first aid+canine communication. For fur/feather/fins/scales.

Pet sitting and wedding pet chaperone. Pet sitting in your home overnight or just pop-in to feed etc., Wedding Pet chaperone on request. Fully insured, DBS, pet first aid, member of NARPS.

Last morning with these funny little sisters. They are full of fun and love cwtches, especially in bed ! 🥰🥰
15/08/2026

Last morning with these funny little sisters. They are full of fun and love cwtches, especially in bed ! 🥰🥰

14/08/2026
Sleepless, hot night with the 2 cockerpoos then off on last visit to the bunny then call-in to let the JRTs have a comfo...
14/08/2026

Sleepless, hot night with the 2 cockerpoos then off on last visit to the bunny then call-in to let the JRTs have a comfort break. Roll on annual holiday in Sept. 🥵😉😎

13/08/2026
13/08/2026

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝟑 𝐃𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥 𝐃’𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐃𝐨𝐠 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 😈🐶

✧ If your dog can perform a behaviour perfectly at home… but suddenly “forgets” everything outside…

✧ If they can sit for a second, but not for a minute…

✧ If they recall brilliantly until another dog appears…

You’re probably not dealing with a stubborn dog.

You’re dealing with the 𝟑 𝐃𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐥 𝐃’𝐬:

📏 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞
⏱️ 𝐃𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧
🌍 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

These three variables determine how difficult any behaviour becomes. Increase them too quickly, and even a well trained dog can struggle.

📏 1. 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞

Distance refers to how far away you are from your dog, or how far your dog is expected to work from you.

For example:

Asking for a sit while standing beside your dog is easy.

Asking for the same sit when you’re 10 metres away is much harder.

Recalling from 2 metres is very different from recalling from 50 metres.

🤔Why?

As distance increases:

✬ your influence becomes weaker
✬ environmental reinforcement becomes stronger
✬ communication becomes less clear
✬ your dog has more opportunities to make different choices

✅ Distance should be built one small step at a time, ensuring success at each stage before increasing it again.

⏱️ 2. 𝐃𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

Duration is how long your dog is expected to perform a behaviour.

Examples:

✾Sit for 2 seconds.
✾Stay for 30 seconds.
✾Walk politely for 20 metres.
✾Settle calmly while visitors chat.

⚠️ Many owners accidentally increase duration too quickly.

A dog that can hold a stay for 10 seconds hasn’t automatically learned to stay for 2 minutes.

⚠️ Just because your dog succeeded once doesn’t mean the behaviour is fully learned.

Reliable behaviours are built through many successful repetitions, gradually extending the time your dog is expected to perform them.

🌍 3. 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

Distractions are anything competing for your dog’s attention.

This could include:
🐕 other dogs
👦 children
🚗 traffic
🐿️ wildlife
👃 exciting smells
🎾 toys
🍖 food
👥 visitors

➡️ Dogs don’t generalise well.

A cue learned in your quiet living room may feel completely different in a busy park.

⭕️ The more distractions present, the more difficult the behaviour becomes.

Instead of expecting perfection immediately, 𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒅𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒍𝒚 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒐𝒔𝒆 your dog to increasingly challenging environments while setting them up for success.

The biggest mistake…

😳Mᴀɴʏ ᴘᴇᴏᴘʟᴇ ɪɴᴄʀᴇᴀsᴇ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜʀᴇᴇ ᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇ sᴀᴍᴇ ᴛɪᴍᴇ.

For example:

❌ Ask for a 2-minute stay…

❌ From 15 metres away…

❌ In a busy park full of dogs.

That’s like expecting a child who’s just learned basic maths to sit their final exams the next day.

The dog hasn’t failed.

The training plan has simply become too difficult.

𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗢𝗡𝗘 𝘃𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗮𝗯𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝘁 𝗮 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 .

If you’re increasing…

📏 Distance…
➡️ Keep duration short and distractions low.

If you’re increasing…

⏱️ Duration…
➡️ Stay close and keep the environment quiet.

If you’re adding…

🌍 Distractions…
➡️ Reduce both distance and duration.

Keeping two variables easy while introducing one new challenge gives your dog the best opportunity to succeed.

👍Build habits before raising the difficulty

Dogs don’t become reliable because they perform a behaviour once.

👌They become reliable because they have practised the same successful behaviour hundreds of times.

😌Only once a behaviour is consistently successful should you slowly increase one of the three D’s.

Small, gradual progress creates strong habits.

Large jumps create mistakes.

And every mistake is another rehearsal of the behaviour you don’t want.

Remember…

Great dog training isn’t about asking for more.

🤩It’s about asking for just enough that your dog can succeed.

Master the 3 Devil D’s and you’ll find training becomes clearer, more consistent, and far more reliable … for both you and your dog. ❤️🐾

13/08/2026
13/08/2026

Dogs don't feel guilt the way we do. But they do try to reconnect after tension. Here's how. 🧡

Your dog isn't feeling human guilt. But they do feel your tension and want to restore connection. When you see these signals, soften your voice, give a gentle scratch. You just said "we're okay."

Ready to build a relationship of trust, not fear? Our brain training programs focus on connection, not punishment.

Save this to understand your dog's peace offerings. 🐾

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13/08/2026

Your dog experiences the world through their nose in ways you can't imagine. 🧡

Next time your dog wants to pause on a walk, let them sniff. It's not a delay. It's mental enrichment.

Ready to turn your dog's superpower into calm? Our brain training programs include nose‑work games that satisfy their sniffing instinct.

Save this to appreciate your dog's nose even more. 🐾

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