Caroline Spencer K9

Caroline Spencer K9 Teaching dogs the way they naturally learn. 1-2-1 home visits with Author Caroline Spencer It is not a way of dominating you dog or turning it into a robot.

Caroline Spencer and her supporters seek to establish leadership of the dog in a kind manner, respectful of its nature and instincts.Becoming a decision maker for your dog, so he may relax in the knowledge that you are there for him. Pure and simply it is a way to show your dog that you are the decision maker and it can sit back and relax knowing that all the important decisions regarding danger,

safety and food are taken by you. The primary principal underpinning PURE Dog Listening is to allow the dog to gather information given in a language it understands and allow the dog to draw conclusions of its own free will.

19/04/2026

Fussy eaters? Picky eaters ? Poor eating habits? Causes range from anxiety issues to adolescence push backs.
Get in touch to help.

If your dog suddenly stops eating, it’s often not serious. Common causes include stress, anxiety, changes in routine or food, too many treats. Bi***es in season and knock on effect, male dogs with one thing on their mind.
Most cases are easily resolved, but if you’re worried or it continues, a vet visit is the safest way to rule out health issues and get peace of mind.
Dogs didn’t evolve to eat from bowls, those are a human invention, for many dogs, deep or curved bowls can actually make eating frustrating. A flat feeding surface makes mealtimes easier and enriching.
Flat boards made from materials like bamboo allow dogs to eat more naturally, often encouraging licking, which can have a calming effect. Positioning the board in an open space rather than a corner also helps, giving the dog room to move and a better sense of security while eating.
Routine and environment are just as important as the feeding setup. A calm, consistent approach, quiet surroundings, no interaction, and no pressure,helps anxious or fussy dogs feel more relaxed around food. Staying in the room and sitting down facing away from the board of food is key to great success.

If a dog hesitates or doesn’t eat, removing the food after a short time and trying again at the next meal helps avoid pressure while reinforcing routine. All dogs respond well to consistency and a low-stress environment, often improving their appetite within a day or two.

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22/02/2026

🐾 Puppy Socialisation 🐶

👉 Puppies need to meet as many dogs and people as possible! NOPE!

Socialisation isn’t about constant interaction.
It’s about teaching your pup that your world is safe.

Positive experiences build confidence. Overwhelming experiences create fear, reactivity and inability to self regulate. And spill over to other areas in the dogs life at home as well as out and about.

Most Common Mistakes We Make

1️⃣ Flooding
Busy pubs and coffee shops , busy dog areas, school pick-ups, over top attention from visitors at home. These overwhelm and won’t build confidence.

Good socialisation means your puppy can notice something new, stay calm, and disengage. And, you notice over whelm and advocate for your puppy.

2️⃣ Prioritising interaction
Puppies don’t need to greet every person dog or animal
Calm observation over constant meeting.
Over do greetings, create frustration and on lead reactivity later.

3️⃣ Ignoring emotions & Over Threshold
If your puppy is tense, shows avoidance hyper-alert, barks, whines, lays down, not eating, jumps up, pulls to greet etc they’re not “fine.” Or over friendly - They are stressed and need your help.
Emotion matters more than exposure.

4️⃣ Delay in Socialisation
Safe, controlled exposure before full vaccinations (carrying them, distance watching, calm dog visitors) is better than total isolation.

Why This All Matters so much

🧠 Calm experiences become normal.
🧠 Overwhelming experiences can become threatening.

You’re not just helping them learn, you’re shaping emotional wellbeing for the future.

Puppies need a mentor, one they can look to for guidance and support.

Puppies are highly observant, quick to form associations, and sensitive to movement, sound, smell and touch.

That means:

• Work at distances where they can think and still connect with you.
• Avoid rehearsing chasing, fixating & overstimulation.
• Prioritise calm over constant stimulation.
•Prioritise your relationship over trying to create relationships with strangers human or animal

The best socialisation is built on a feeling of safety.

🐕 🚘 🐮 Quiet observation of anything new at a distance to create neutrality
🐶 Passing unknown dogs and people at a distance without meeting. Important to curve round, breaking direct eye contact. Create space.
🐶 🧍‍♀️ Controlled, gentle interaction with known calm humans and dogs.
🫶 Short and sweet exposures.

Calm is a skill learnt when you give your puppy the time and the space to think in a safe space and with a human who gives them time to think peacefully and time to recover if over whelmed.

A well-socialised dog isn’t one who rushes at everything.

It’s one who can exist around anything without an emotional outburst.

* Socialisation is a slow marathon of social emotional learning.

What you repeat and expose your pup to, reinforces what becomes automatic later. It shapes the adult your pup will later become as an adult.

Observe their social skills through their life time. Be mindful of how your dog copes anywhere or with anything new. When things change look to why - age, health, experiences and you.

21/02/2026

Make you the centre of your dogs universe. Provide age and breed appropriate outlets, give a dog too much freedom too soon and you become history. They will find their fulfilment and their entertainment elsewhere. And find themselves in situations they can’t cope with or cause frustration, anxiety or over stimulation. Which can result in reactive behaviours, minimal interest in their person, finding their fulfilment elsewhere

Dogs tell the time by scent.Does your dog become agitated when it’s time the children are due back from school or partne...
28/01/2026

Dogs tell the time by scent.

Does your dog become agitated when it’s time the children are due back from school or partner back from work? Their scent has dissipated through the day and your dog works out at what level the scent is when you are due back. ( Studies by Alexandra Horowitz )

As an unabashed dog lover, Alexandra Horowitz is naturally curious about what her dog thinks and what she knows. As a cognitive scientist she is intent on understanding the minds of animals who cannot say what they know or feel. This is a fresh look at the world of dogs -- from the dog's point o...

19/01/2026

🌟 Book Your Slot 🌟

Free 25 min consultation with Dog Behaviourist Caroline Spencer who has over 30 years experience.
A behaviourist for ProDog raw and author of "Why does my dog do that"?
Come and have a chat with Caroline about your dogs behaviour and help to get a better understanding.

Now only a few slots left.
Message or call into the shop to book in.

17/01/2026

Does your dog have separation anxiety? Do they bark, defecate, chew, pace when left alone ? With patience and understanding you can help your dog become peaceful at home with our with out you . Consultations available locally within a hour local to or further away on line.
You’ll also find help for this in my book “Why Does My Dog Do That?”

15/01/2026

It was after my dog barked for what felt like the hundredth time at something I couldn’t see, eyes alert, tail stiff, chest lifted as if to say, something is here, that I realized I live with a creature whose world I don’t fully understand.

I stood there in the dim hallway, seeing only stillness, while he stood on edge, certain of what my senses couldn’t grasp. I feed him, walk him, love him, yet there are places in his world I’ll never reach. I call him “companion,” but how much of him remains a mystery?

That day, I accepted a quiet truth: my dog inhabits a universe I cannot see, smell, or hear. He moves through invisible layers of scent and sound, guided by instinct and memory, navigating a parallel world that exists beside mine, but not within it. Reading Inside of a Dog by Alexandra Horowitz opened a door into that unseen world.

1. Dogs Smell in Layers We Cannot Imagine
When my dog pauses for five minutes at a patch of grass, I used to tug the leash impatiently. Not anymore. Horowitz reveals that to a dog, every scent is a history, who was here, when, what they felt. Smell is a dog’s way of reading the world, and rushing them through it is like flipping through a novel without letting them finish the sentences. Now, I wait. Now, I watch him read.

2. They Aren’t Just Reacting, They’re Interpreting
That late-night bark wasn’t random. Dogs construct a world based on their own sensory data. They hear frequencies we cannot, feel vibrations we ignore. Horowitz describes this not as a flaw in humans, but a difference. One that demands we stop interpreting their behavior solely through our lens. What looks irrational to us is completely sensible to them.

3. Anthropomorphism Is Comforting, But It Misses the Point
We often love our dogs like small, furry people. But Horowitz gently cautions against this. Dogs are not stand-ins for humans; they are remarkable creatures in their own right, with drives and delights we’ll never fully share. She invites us to stop projecting and start observing. The gift of knowing a dog is not in making them like us, but in learning to love them for who they are.

4. To Understand a Dog, You Must Lower Yourself, Literally and Figuratively
Horowitz speaks about the “umwelt,” the unique perceptual world of an organism. To get close to understanding our dogs, we must kneel, listen, observe at their level. It’s not just about looking at them. It’s about seeing with them. Letting go of our dominance and embracing curiosity. That shift, from master to witness, is where connection deepens.

5. The Most Profound Love Begins in Respect
We think we love our dogs well. But sometimes, love is control in disguise: commands, corrections, expectations. Horowitz reminds us that the deepest affection doesn’t seek to mold or manage, it seeks to know. To respect your dog’s nature. Their rhythms. Their quirks. And in doing so, you become not their trainer, but their companion.

Inside of a Dog changed how I walk, how I speak, how I pause when my dog stops to lift his nose to the wind. It taught me to honor the unseen world that runs beside my own. Love, I learned, isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s patient. Sometimes, it smells like everything we can’t smell. Sometimes, it barks at what we cannot see. And yet, it’s no less real.

Original Art: 'Fidelity', 1869 by Briton Riviere

ABOUT ME - Caroline Spencer (Dip.AdvCanBhv) Author of " Why Does My Dog Do That?" | Co-Author of "Parenting Your New Pup...
11/01/2026

ABOUT ME -
Caroline Spencer (Dip.AdvCanBhv)
Author of " Why Does My Dog Do That?" | Co-Author of "Parenting Your New Puppy" with Lesley Harris
Canine behaviourist with 35 years of experience. Caroline began her canine career over 35 yrs ago with task-oriented training. Later, discovering books by Turid Rugass, Alexandra Horowitz, Temple Grandin, Marc Becoff, and more, her perspective changed.
"Raise dogs. Don't train them." - “ Nurture, guide, and educate.” Less about control and more about living a relaxed, whole life within our fast and confusing, controlling world.
Caroline emphasises the importance of understanding why dogs do what they do, and how they feel, by how they communicate. And importantly, how we feel and respond to their dialogue. Form a human-dog relationship through trust, empathy and understanding. respecting and working with their natural behaviours, whilst providing guidance and boundaries where appropriate to help them become the best version of themselves.
Caroline helps you to help your dog be the peaceful companion they were born to be and free yourself from micromanaging their every move. To become their safe place, their mentor, their rock, in times they may feel vulnerable, and the one they can play with, relax with, and feel complete with. Give them the room and guidance to grow into well-balanced individuals.
Caroline conducts 1-2-1 consultations in and around North Devon and Somerset. For those further afield, Caroline will do online consultations for most behavioural cases. From Puppy to Adult - contact Caroline for no obligation chats
www.carolinespencerk9.com
Email - [email protected]
Text - 07789777407

Teaching dogs the way they naturally learn. At home consultations for dogs with separation anxiety, barking dogs, puppy problems and more with carolinespencerk9.com

Come along and let’s have a quick chat about training and behaviour issues you may be having.  Book your spot at Nellies...
11/01/2026

Come along and let’s have a quick chat about training and behaviour issues you may be having. Book your spot at Nellies Nibbles Dog Larder and see if a few tips can help you moving in the right direction with your dog to forge a better more relaxed relationship with your dog.

More fantastic news from Nellies Nibbles Dog Larder 🤩

I have been in conversation with the lovely Caroline Spencer - Dog Behaviourist with over 30 years experience.
Author of the book "Why does my dog do that".
Behaviourist for ProDog Raw

She has kindly offered to spend the day with us on Saturday 7th March to be available to answer any of your questions that you might have regarding your dogs behaviour and those areas that your struggling to resolve.
Just some of the area covered 👇

Separation anxiety
Lead pulling
Food possessiveness
Frustrated greeters
Fussy eater
And much more

So that everyone gets a fair chance at speaking to Caroline on the day, she is offering 30 min FREE slots.

From 9-30 - 3pm
You don't need to book in advance
Just turn up or combine it with your shopping trip to buy your raw food.
It will be a casual relaxed day, and you don't necessarily need to bring your dog but we always love to see them if you do

❤️ 🐶❤️🐶❤️🐶❤️🐶❤️🐶❤️🐶❤️🐶

*Note you may have a 10 - 20 min wait if she's already chatting to someone.

🗓 Keep the date in your diary

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Monday 9am - 7:30pm
Tuesday 9am - 7:30pm
Wednesday 9am - 7:30pm
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