11/03/2025
Real behaviour modification does not happen quickly!
Suppression of fears, behaviours, and psychological issues can happen very quickly if you want to stop the behaviour, but not to actually help your dog!
When working with behaviours that you, as the owner, want to change, you have a choice. You can choose to address issues and work to help your dog feel happy, relaxed, and stable. Or you can choose to stop the behaviours and paper over what your dog is going through and having to cope with!
Real behaviour modification takes time, patience, and understanding. Take the time to understand what is happening to your dog, to understand that what your dog is going through is tough for them and that in order to get the behaviour to the point that you are happy with you need to work at a pace that works for your dog, not for you!
If we could wave a magic wand and solve the issues for your dog and change the behaviours to meet your expectations for behaviour quickly, then, believe me, we would do that!
For us, it is hard watching a dog go through the behaviours which cause them stress and upset. But we also understand that working at the dogs' pace with understanding and compassion is the key to changing the behaviour with the best interests of the dog always being considered.
If we try to rush the process, or push the dog into situations that cause them distress, then the fallout of this could very well make things worse.
Imagine you are scared of rodents and someone puts you in a room of them. Now imagine that everything you react and show your fear, that someone strangles you, or sprays you, or even electrocutes you? Eventually, you will stop reacting, but the fear will still be there!
But what is someone gave you tools to deal with the fear? If someone showed you compassion and understanding? If you aren't put in a room of rodents, but you get therapy to address the fear and slowly helped you get to a point where you can cope seeing a rodent? Where you could sit in a room with just one? If you knew that you are slowly helped over your fear?
That is exactly what behaviour modification does!
So next time your dog is showing you their fear, listen to it and think how can i support my dog to feel less fearful instead of how do I stop this behaviour!