25/06/2025
My horse gets looked at strangely when she COMMUNICATES with me, she does this because she knows I will LISTEN ❤️
This never used to be me, I was so self absorbed with my own pain that I didn’t give my horses freedom to share their own thoughts or feelings 💔
Horses can be triggers to our pain and it’s often easier to train that pain to be quiet and obedient…
However if we open up to our horses and allow them to open up to us…
Our horses can also be amazing therapists too 💗
There is no such a thing as "bombproof horses", if we want these horses to remain...just horses, that is to say naturally reactive prey animals who instinctively tend to remain always alert, with this being a fundamental trait of their species specific needs in order to survive.
Consequently, horses being truly horses will always notice and be careful about any new stimuli or potential threat to their animal mind: yes, they can surely learn to calmly investigate it instead of simply reacting, but they will always remain alert and they just won't tolerate what is simply too much for the mind and instincts of a prey animal.
So, horses not reacting at all instead to anything, no matter what and no matter how, are simply completely shut off because of the learned helplessness: by the use of forceful training methods like Flooding, they simply learned to have no escape at all from whatever they may have to endure, they learned to have no way to avoid it and so they finally end by passively accepting anything without reacting.
But not because they aren't scared or bothered by it anymore, but just because they know to have absolutely no choice...
Well, surely not something to be ever proud of, reducing horses to become just some sort of programmed robots without any autonomy and real life left in them 💔
Picture credit: Fed Up Fred