29/10/2026
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I’ve been in animal rescue long enough to believe that one of the biggest challenges we face isn’t the animals. It’s the personalities of the people trying to save them.
And I say that as someone who loves rescue people.
We have people with enormous hearts, strong opinions, big emotions, different philosophies, and an incredible amount of passion. All of those things can be wonderful. They can also make working together unbelievably difficult.
I’ve seen people spend more energy fighting over who gets credit than celebrating the animal who got adopted. I’ve seen good ideas dismissed because someone didn’t like the person who suggested them. I’ve seen disagreements become personal, assumptions become facts, and people become so focused on being right that they forget what we’re actually trying to accomplish.
Somewhere along the way, rescue can become about territory, control, recognition, and whose feelings were hurt.
And the animals pay for it.
Here’s something I wish more people understood: You can be a wonderful person who loves animals deeply and still be difficult to work with. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.
Loving animals doesn’t automatically make us good communicators, good teammates, or good leaders. Those things require self-awareness, humility, accountability, and the ability to hear something we don’t like without turning it into a personal attack.
Not every disagreement is disrespect. Not every decision you disagree with is an injustice. Not being included in every conversation doesn’t mean you’re unappreciated. And someone having a different opinion doesn’t make them your enemy.
We ask animals who have experienced unimaginable things to learn to trust, adapt, and coexist. Yet sometimes we, the humans responsible for them, can’t manage to do those same things with one another.
The irony is pretty remarkable.
Animal rescue is emotional work. It should be. But our emotions cannot be allowed to run the organization. We owe the animals more than that.
We don’t all have to like each other. We don’t have to agree on everything. We don’t even have to approach rescue the same way.
But we do have to remember that the mission is bigger than any one of us.
Because at the end of the day, the dogs don’t care who was right in the meeting, who got the credit, who has been volunteering the longest, or whose idea it was.
They just need us to get our act together.
The animals are the reason we’re here. Our personalities shouldn’t be the reason we fail them.