10/02/2021
I am so excited to be integrating & to have found a much deeper understanding of what I stand for and what I want in a partner and how I want to show up in my life. I am also so incredibly grateful for the supportive messages, comments & and all the love that has been pouring into my heart from this virtual community & close friends around me. It’s been so healing during this transition. I wanted to share a few news learnings from this past experience that I’ve found so much clarity in.
NEW INTEGRATIONS & LESSONS 💛
⚡️if you don’t feel in your power, your power never left, and it was never and can never be taken from you, it can only be suppressed. Someone who wants control over you will drain your energy by pulling your primary focus onto their problems. & trying to fix someone else, just pulls you away from yourself & out of your power. Stand up, & reclaim your power by walking away from anything that makes you feel pulled away from yourself.
⚡️Someone can be there for you physically, and it can look great on the outside, but if not emotionally and all the ways that matter on a deeper level, it feels empty. Support goes deeper than surface levels.
How does the person make you FEEL? I know more than ever I want to feel more empowered. More liberated. More myself. Happier, more peaceful, joyful & alive. This is what I stand for.
⚡️The only person you need to trust is in yourself. and then make a decision if someone is worthy of your trust from that place. Trust isn’t given, it’s earned over time.
⚡️Be wary of someone who always plays the victim card. This is a passive way to live & someone with this pattern will blame everything else while mitigating responsibility for themselves. There are no excuses for disrespect. Period.
⚡️The most important thing I know I want in a partner is someone grounded in his morals and knows himself inside & out. This is priceless and is what makes someone a solid & stable human.
The universe will always give you not what you want but what you need. 💛
