08/28/2025
This!!
āWhy didnāt you tell her to ____?ā
Teaching is an art. You first have to see whatās in front of you, what is going well, what skills are missing. Then you have to get a read on the person- what are they ready to hear? Whatās the first skill to be introduced? How can I build a good mind frame and confidence in this student? How do I prevent them from feeling discouraged or overwhelmed?
And nowadays, more than ever; teaching requires preventing sideline teachers from bombarding your student.
I remember about five years ago asking an auditor to leave my clinic, who, every time a student rode by, would shout āwrong diagonal!ā āDonāt let your reins get sloppy!ā āHalf halt!ā
After speaking with her and asking her to not harass my students with advice they had not asked her for, she continued, and was asked to leave.
Being a sideline teacher is easy. You get to feel important immediately, and right. You donāt have to develop a relationship with students; to carefully measure whatās needed in a moment, it requires no tact: you simply blurt out what others are doing wrong and go on your merry way.
Being a student is harder than ever - you have a cacophony of noise to Wade through, a hundred different styles to choose from, all with labels of āethicalā and ācorrect biomechanicsā and āpositive,ā so much it makes oneās head spin-
What do those words mean?
Then you have to sort through the Internet forums, the well meaning friends handing out advice like candy on Halloween long after youāve had your fill, the bystanders who watch and know it all but canāt and wonāt do -
You have to sort through the muck, and hold on tight to what feels right to you. You have to ignore friends and family at times, to close your eyes and ears to the outside at times, and stick like your life depends on it to a path before youāre pulled back into the chaos.
Being a teacher is getting harder. But I imagine being a student is probably hardest of all.
Photo by Nicole Shoup