12/16/2025
Growing up a Farm Kid.
The lessons weren’t often taught by sitting you down and looking you in the eye. They were taught in the silence, sitting on the armrest of the 4450. Sun beating through the window, watching the field become smaller one round at a time. They were taught while your hands were balled up in your mitts, hunkered down in the corner of the barn, silently watching for a new life to enter the world. They were taught hiding out of sight so the cows went where they needed to go without being spooked. The lessons were so clearly taught in his body language, in the anguish on his face, the heartache in his eyes. They were taught in that great big bear hug and ear to ear grin at the end of the day. They were taught at every 1:30, 3:30 and 6 o’clock alarm. They were taught with a frozen calf in the bathtub while you got ready for school. They were taught with blood soaked clothes. They were taught in every 5 gallon pail you filled in the tub. The lessons were taught in the missed holidays and sporting events. They were taught with a 4-h calf being pulled behind a tractor because giving in isn’t an option. They were taught in the urgency of getting pairs to pasture before a calf got hurt in the trailer. They were taught with a whiskey on a hard day and a cold beer on a good one.
The lessons were taught to every farm kid without a word being spoken. Hard work, love, empathy, resilience, determination, wit, heartache, grit, joy and pride. Most of all, you knew without a shadow of a doubt that there is so much more to life than yourself. Selflessness.
Being a farm kid is sacred. It’s not in what you learned, it’s in how.