Toby’s Training Tips

Toby’s Training Tips Look for online training courses and resources in Albums After she died, I moved back to Canada. He’s a beautiful and goofy, buy troubled boy! Bonnie & Toby

Passionate dog enthusiast and hobby dog trainer sharing training resources and Toby's favourite force-free tips to help reshape his brain by teaching concepts and life skills through games. I've been very lucky to have had 4 dogs in my life over the last 30 years – Bobbie, Rubi, Gracie, and Toby. I am a dog owner, I’m passionate about dogs, I am Toby’s mama and trainer, and my hobby is dog trainin

g and behaviour. I am not a professional dog trainer nor am I running training classes – just tips, ideas, advice, sharing great resources. I became a certified Dog Behavioural Training Instructor with Delta Society Australia in 2005; developed, implemented and facilitated the dog training orientation for RSCPCA volunteers and ran private dog training classes in Australia from 2004-2006. For the next several years, I focused on my completely unrelated business career and enjoyed life with my beautiful dog Rubi. I adopted Toby in 2019 and he's lead me down a path of learning more about behaviour and related challenges with his anxiety, fear and leash reactivity. I sought help from a local trainer, Toby's vet, a vet behaviourist, and various online resources. I finally found Absolute Dogs (based in the UK) in January 2021 and started taking online course. I completed the Pro Dog Trainer course in December 2021. I continue to take various Absolute Dogs courses, some of which are promoted on my page. I am affiliated with Absolute Dogs (because of all of the courses I’ve completed) and I do receive commission, which helps me pay for more courses! I'm hardly an expert, but I do have a few tips, tricks, and ideas up my sleeve, which I though I would share for those who ask.

Great post about “dominance”!
12/24/2022

Great post about “dominance”!

MYTHBUSTING MONDAY: It's not dominance. Seriously, it's not. There is no dominant breed. You don't have a dominant dog. Your dog's behavior is not a "dominance thing."

Now, I realize those statements might be causing some hardcore cognitive dissonance right now. Because from the moment you even became aware of dogs, you have been told that dogs are pack animals and a bunch of dominance stuff based on that assumption.

From the Merck Veterinary Manual:

"The dog’s social structure has been referred to as a pack hierarchy, but this does not accurately or entirely describe the relationship of dogs with other dogs or with people."

"The term dominance...is a relative term established by the value of the resource to each individual and the cumulative effects of learning."

For example, Animal A might challenge Animal B for a mate. Animal B might defer. But does that make Animal A the dominant animal?

What if Animal B waits until Animal A is distracted and mates with that female at another time? Is dominance even relevant at this point? I would argue that learning is far more pertinent than hierarchy.

The problem is that people tend to think of hierarchies in dogs just like hierarchies in humans. Governments, militaries, churches, schools, corporations all have linear hierarchical structures.

However, when it comes to dogs, it's not that simple.

"Hierarchy in dogs is neither static nor linear, because the motivation to obtain and retain a specific resource, together with previous learning, defines the relationship between two individuals for each encounter."

In other words, if you push me out of the way to get the last chocolate truffle, and I walk away...but I don't actually like chocolate truffles (I don't), you're not actually establishing dominance. I didn't want the resource, anyway. Or maybe I learned that, by walking away, I will be given the key to the room full of caramels. Mmmmm. Caramels.

What about aggression?

"A 'dominant' animal is not the one engaged in the most fighting and combat. Most high-ranking animals seldom have to contest their right of access to a resource. Instead, high-ranking animals are usually better identified by the character and frequency of deferential behaviors exhibited by others in their social group and by their ability to respond appropriately to a variety of social and environmental circumstances."

So, it is not the "dominant" dog who growls over a bone or fights with other dogs at the dog park. When your dogs are fighting at home, identifying the alpha is about as productive as a snipe hunt.

Why does it matter? Because if you are told that your dog's behavior is the result of dominance, the solution is almost always some form of rank reduction. Everything from making the dog sit for every bit of affection to methods that are too disturbing to detail. And it's all called "leadership."

Trying to change a dog's rank in an imaginary hierarchy only serves to delay behavior modification. In many cases, it makes the situation much worse.

If we want to change behavior, we need to explore the dog's health, environment, and learning history, as well as identify triggers and consequences for the behavior. From there, we can develop a complete plan that addresses the needs of the individual dog, reducing their stress, increasing tolerance, and reinforcing desirable responses.

Next time someone tells you that if your dog jumps, pulls on the leash, leans on you, sits on your foot, sleeps on top of the couch, barks, mounts/humps, doesn't listen, or anything else that isn't obedience or cowering in the corner, it's dominance, what they're really saying is that they don't understand dog behavior and are probably not someone you want to take advice from....let alone pay for that advice!

Relax. It's not dominance. Now we've got that out of the way, let's focus on changing behavior!

See more:
http://www.merckvetmanual.com/behavior/normal-social-behavior-and-behavioral-problems-of-domestic-animals/social-behavior-of-dogs
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This course changed Toby’s life, it changed my life, and it changed everything about our relationship. (And, Ziggy is al...
10/21/2022

This course changed Toby’s life, it changed my life, and it changed everything about our relationship. (And, Ziggy is already learning about life through these methods too!).
I highly recommend this course to anyone with dog behaviour struggles (or to prevent struggles, like Ziggy!).

DO YOU HAVE A DOG THAT…
* Barks and lunges at the end of the leash?
* Growls at other dogs and people on walks?
* Rehearses frustrating, embarrassing, naughty behaviour?
* Struggles in the home and is destructive, noisy, or barks at the wrong times?
* Doesn’t get along with other dogs or is worried about the world in general?
* Doesn’t come back when called?
* Grabs, bites and nips at you or jumps up on you when over-excited?

OFF LEASH FREEDOM, HOUSEHOLD MANNERS and REACTIVITY BOOTCAMPS:
* learn games to work and play with your dog to train for the moment not in the moment
* learn concepts like optimism, proximity, disengagement, confidence, calmness, tolerance of frustration, arousal up/down…
* ~$550 CAD for 9 weeks of online learning that you can do at your own pace
* keep the videos forever
* workbooks
* Facebook group

https://nbn.absolute-dogs.com/pdp-coming-to-bootcamp?prod=naughty-but-nice-bootcamp&ref=1258

This is a fantastic little course and it was the start to my training journey with Absolute Dogs.The 7 Day Barking, Lung...
09/27/2022

This is a fantastic little course and it was the start to my training journey with Absolute Dogs.

The 7 Day Barking, Lunging and Reactivity Challenge starts on October 12th and is only about $11.00.

The course is for all dog owners who struggle with their dog reacting to other dogs or people, separation anxiety and pulling on leash!

Check it out here: https://nbn.absolute-dogs.com/7-day-challenge1663836157219?prod=barking-lunging-reactivity-7-day-homeschool-challenge&ref=1258

You may see links to sign up for the Barking, Lunging, Reactivity 7 Day Homeschool Challenge elsewhere. Please disregard any other link and use this link, as it's my very own special, unique link I get to share with you.

09/22/2022

Ditch the Bowl 2 - Snuffle Mat

Ziggy demonstrating another way to ditch the bowl, which will help her develop patience, tolerance of frustration, calmness, and impulse control. It’s also a great mental exercise, physically tiring and slows down how fast she eats.
Good girl Ziggy! ❤️

TRAINING A PUPPY! I started this page to share Toby’s training journey and tips, then promptly got a FOSTER PUPPY and sh...
09/05/2022

TRAINING A PUPPY!

I started this page to share Toby’s training journey and tips, then promptly got a FOSTER PUPPY and she has been all consuming for nearly 2 weeks.

Meet Ziggy, a 16 week old, 8 lb, JRT mix. She’s cute, smart, energetic, playful, tenacious and a huge handful! We’ve been very busy with toilet, crate, sleep, leash, play and bite training. (Oh the biting!!!) Plus ensuring that she and Toby both have positive experiences. She adores him. He’s not as sure.

She brings joy and energy to our home, but also requires constant attention, stimulation and/or supervision when awake. We’re still in our foster trial period and my decision about her future changes literally every hour.

In the meantime, I’m enjoying her zest for life, getting to know herand learning about her and relearning about puppy training (it’s been 18 years since I had a puppy!).

If you’re interested, Secrets to Raising a Puppy the Abdolute Dogs Way (through concepts and games) is a fantastic resource, which is keeping us all sane at the moment!

https://game.absolute-dogs.com/absolutedogs-puppy-training-resource-bundle-thank-you

Optimism Rocks! Free e-Book! 😆❤️🐾Do you have a noise reactive dog? One of the most important concepts to grow when you h...
08/19/2022

Optimism Rocks! Free e-Book! 😆❤️🐾

Do you have a noise reactive dog?

One of the most important concepts to grow when you have a dog who is worried by noise is OPTIMISM!

Do you have a noise reactive dog? 🐶 Do they spook bark or become worried whether they hear loud or quiet noises? You are not alone, this struggle is an extremely common one.

One of the most important concepts to grow when you have a dog who is worried by noise is OPTIMISM! 😎

No matter your dog’s age, stage, breed or lifestyle, it’s important to continue to build optimism around noises, rewarding random noises and building different noises into your puppy’s daily life is super important.

You want your dog to be confident around noise and comfortable with a wide range of noises – no matter whether they are familiar or novel. 🌟Remember, the BEST response is NO response!🌟

Want to help grow your dog’s optimism in the face of noise and novelty? Grab our FREE eBook for all our tip tips!
https://nbn.absolute-dogs.com/optimismrocksbook

08/18/2022

Ditch the Bowl 1 - Food Puzzle
Toby demonstrating one way to ditch the bowl, which helps him develop patience, tolerance of frustration, calmness, and impulse control. It’s also a great mental exercise, slows down how fast he eats and it’s something we do together.
Good boy Toby! ❤️
(It’s a long video, so Toby won’t be offended if you fast forward a bit.)

Five things to remember (or learn) about reactive dogs. * Reactions are information * The behaviours are challenging, no...
08/12/2022

Five things to remember (or learn) about reactive dogs.
* Reactions are information
* The behaviours are challenging, not the dog
* Train for the situation, not in the situation
* Ditch unhelpful labels
* You can reshape your dog’s through games.
(+ Ditching the walks helps too…but more on that another time)

Toby’s Training Tips is run by Toby's personal chef, trainer, walker, cleaner, shopper, chauffeur and general slave. Tob...
08/12/2022

Toby’s Training Tips is run by Toby's personal chef, trainer, walker, cleaner, shopper, chauffeur and general slave. Toby struggles with anxiety, fear, low confidence, pessimism and disengagement, which presents as reactivity. Bonnie (said personal slave) is a passionate dog enthusiast and hobby behavioural dog trainer.

We’re here to share links to fantastic online course, resources, tips, ideas, and to connect with potential walking buddies for Toby.

Please see Photos/Albums for online training courses and resources, in the meantime, here's the quick list of links:

Sexier Than a Squirrel (25-Day online course): https://shop.absolutedogstraining.com/product/squirrel/ref/1258/?campaign=STAS&fbclid=IwAR0DYYaoA_BMKGSNr5uYCFK7LxH9gFDCq94CC-dIigDvaHKw4zXK8Tirou4

Stop Pulling (online mini course): https://game.absolute-dogs.com/stoppulling-pdp?prod=stop-pulling-mini-course&ref=1258&fbclid=IwAR047CPhnKldx6ckU_qssGuXJtKkkVchKpLfS9IhHUvIVTYHcOWWO2xAUqc

Stop Barking (online mini course): https://game.absolute-dogs.com/stop-barking1653996642857?prod=stop-barking-mini-course&ref=1258&fbclid=IwAR3vSNquUCAM54bEWeCQeqe9QMZgcx72hkfAa48Q3TCFkPQmKCVWOO3ZMPY

Rescue Dog (free resources): https://absolute-dogs.ac-page.com/rescue-dog-affiliate?fbclid=IwAR0VBJlSDF_Jc51vDecfLioDegbPFit8wQJBTq6SPniPDrIhLjMIOVCoTq0

Toby's list of local, in-person resources: https://www.facebook.com/TobysTrainingTips/photos/a.102303352596120/102304315929357/

DO YOU HAVE A NAUGHTY BUT NICE DOG?Naughty but nice dogs may have behaviour challenges like pulling on leash, counter su...
08/10/2022

DO YOU HAVE A NAUGHTY BUT NICE DOG?

Naughty but nice dogs may have behaviour challenges like pulling on leash, counter surfing, barking at passersby, stealing socks, lunging, chasing, separation anxiety, hu***ng, not coming when called, resource guarding…and the list goes on.

Sexier Than a Squirrel Course:
* 25 days of training videos where you learn how to play GAMES to become your dog’s superhero!
* You’ll learn how to train your dog to CHOOSE YOU over distractions through simple 3-minute games!
* Cost is only approx $45(£27)
* Work at your own pace, revisit as many times as you’d like, as you’ll have access to the online materials for life.
* Access to a Community of other dog owners on the same journey in an exclusive Facebook group with additional teachings!

https://shop.absolutedogstraining.com/product/squirrel/ref/1258/?campaign=STAS

Bringing home a rescue dog?Sign up to receive Absolute Dog's 7-day collection of free rescue resources and find games an...
08/10/2022

Bringing home a rescue dog?

Sign up to receive Absolute Dog's 7-day collection of free rescue resources and find games and strategies that will help you navigate all of your rescue dog's behaviour struggles, moving you closer to an amazing dog training transformation.

absolutedogs.me/transformyourrescue

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