07/22/2025
Just say NO to NO! From past experience and from watching others I notice people getting disappointed with their dog and saying "NO" right away the first time their dog doesn't understand something or makes a mistake (or even if it is a well-trained dog). I believe that's doesn't really help aid the dog's understanding of what to do, in fact it often shuts down the dog from trying, and makes them disconnect from you. ESPECIALLY if they didn't understand something and it was YOUR fault.
What would be more helpful is if people would notice a LOT more YES! Don't wait for that one thing that happened that was wrong. Look at the 5 things that are going right. When you are excited with your dog and reward their efforts, they will bond more with you and keep trying. If you MINIMALLY reward, and then ALWAYS notice and let them know their mistakes - they WILL disconnect (sniff more, run off more, go slower!)
Guess what - there is very likely something you did in your body language or set up that influenced the dog, or the task asked was too hard for them. Or they just don't understand it yet. Even telling them NO for something like barking at other dogs - what does that mean to them?? Rather show them what you want them to do RIGHT and then reward that! (Look at me, come over here, sit, etc).
It will help your attitude and if you are happier and more patient with the dog, they will respond better to that as well! Start looking for why they did what they did, and what part you might have had in that or how you could better help them succeed. (Not to beat yourself up, but to become a better trainer).
I find that saying NO is very minimally valuable in agility training - only after SEVERAL wrong attempts, not just the first time. But even then, you need to change what you are asking and make it more understandable.
Yes, sometimes the dogs will be distracted and not acting very well, but often there is more to it than that. Oh, and by the way - make sure you have GOOD enough HIGH VALUE interesting treats or rewards to help them be motivated to overcome their distractions!