10/19/2026
Three years ago today, my book, The Way of Life Method, came into the world. And I have to say, the feeling never gets old. ✨
The book was three years in the making: two years to write, one year to edit. I had always planned to write it, but the pandemic is what finally made it possible. When the world went quiet, I hunkered down and wrote.
There were stretches where this book was so aching to be born that I would wake in the middle of the night feeling genuinely compelled to get up. I would make my bed, knowing I wouldn’t be back to sleep. I’d tidy the house, as if nesting, getting myself ready. And then I’d settle in and write through the quiet of the night while the dogs slept, working until around midday before heading out with them and tending to the young and beloved business growing alongside the book. Some writing days were easier than others. But I never experienced a single moment of writer’s block. Not one. That’s how much this work needed to come out.
It can look from the outside like a book belongs entirely to its author. It doesn’t. It takes a small army and a small fortune to bring one into existence, especially when you’re self-publishing. My editors (yes, more than one), my design and production team, my audiobook team, my beta readers, my clients, and everyone behind the scenes at Way of Life Dog Training: this was never just my work. It was ours.
And then there were those who joined in the celebration: the people who came to book signing events, who attended the seminars organized by supporters near and far, who spread the word with a generosity I will never forget. Being an author is a truly one-of-a-kind feeling, and those early days of sharing this book with the world are something I will carry with me always.
Since publication, The Way of Life Method has gone on to receive a Gold Medal at the 2026 Living Now Book Awards, a Gold Medal at the 2025 Global Book Awards, a win at the 2025 International Impact Book Awards, a Finalist placement at the Independent Author Network Book of the Year Awards, a Quarter-Finalist placement in the 2024-2025 BookLife Prize Nonfiction Contest, and the honour of being named Connie’s Book Club Pick by Modern Dog Magazine.
It has also received rave reviews across platforms, and yes, the occasional scathing one from those who couldn’t quite understand the intention of the Method or appreciate its difference from more conventional approaches. Those stung at times, I won’t pretend otherwise. But I never forgot something I learned about good books: some people love them, and some people don’t, and that’s exactly as it should be. I never set out to appeal to everyone. I know the effect this book has had on the people who really needed it and truly got it. That’s enough.
Happy three-year anniversary to The Way of Life Method. And another round of deep, heartfelt thanks to everyone who walked with us before, during, and since publication.
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