11/23/2025
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I saw a post today claiming that the harder a young horse “fights back,” the better the horse will be later. As if panic, conflict behaviour, and loss of balance somehow reveal hidden talent or mean the trainer is “getting through” to the real horse underneath.
This belief is still common enough that people proudly share videos of young horses broncing, scrambling, slipping, or bracing against the rider and frame it as normal or necessary. It is not. It is avoidable, and it is a sign of training that pushes horses past what they can cope with.
There is no scientific evidence that a horse who fights harder becomes a more skilled or reliable horse.
There is, however, extensive research showing that fear, conflict behaviour, and elevated stress responses reduce learning, impair motor coordination, and increase long-term behavioural risk. A horse in survival mode is not learning. They are trying to endure what is happening to them.
A young horse does not need to buck.
A young horse does not need to fight.
A young horse does not need to hit a panic point for the rider to “prove” anything.
When a start is built on preparation, clarity, incremental exposure, and real choice, the first rides are not dramatic. They are quiet and almost boring. The horse is not trying to flee. The horse is not bracing their entire body. The horse stays well within its threshold because the training kept them there.
If a horse is slipping, scrambling, shutting down, or trying to escape, that is not a sign of future greatness. It is a sign that the horse has been overwhelmed and was not prepared for the situation they were put in.
Starting a horse does not need to be “transformative” for the horse. It does not need to be dramatic. It does not need to be a battle.
A good start is simply a continuation of thoughtful preparation from the ground, where the horse already feels safe, already understands the expectations, and already trusts the process. Quiet starts are not “luck”. They are good training.
If someone insists chaos is part of the process, they are telling you more about their methods than they are about horses.