08/27/2026
I was 16 years old, lived on my own, just had a baby and this was the first dog I owned and trained by myself.
This is Valentine. She's my heart dog, she was deaf and incredibly smart. I picked her up in the side of the road out of a box and brought her home.
When she was a puppy she flooded my apartment, she ate food off my table, she would chase everything didn't matter if it was a bike, car, wild life, etc. She pulled like a dang truck and was extremely yappy. We made a lot of mistakes with her. But never with relationship. She taught be so much, she was very different than working with the working dogs.
At the time we didn't know what force free or balanced was. We didn't know prongs or ecollars existed. We trained how we'd always trained, with kindness, patience, and compassion. No punishments. No treats.
After weeks of work and figuring out how to communicate with a deaf dog, this lil lady was almost the perfect dog. We could take her anywhere off leash. (Yes we thought we were above leash laws and did a lot of things I would never do now).
When she passed she had over 30 tricks under her belt, we had her walking nicely beside the stroller, I could leave her outside the store and come back (off leash), she didn't chase anything anymore, she stopped yapping in the apartment everytime something passed. Recall was amazing! And I took her absolutely everywhere with me. She turned out to be such a solid dog.