05/01/2026
As a professional dog trainer, much of my content focuses on improvement ā better walks, better behaviour, and better skills.
But as my dog turns 12, Iāve found myself reflecting on a different question:
What does it really mean to give our dogs a great life?
In a previous YouTube video, I said this:
"You are your dogās life.
How we treat them matters. How we train them matters. How they feel matters.
When we get a dog, weāre taking guardianship of a life. They are captive animals ā their entire existence is with us.
Dogs are often compared to toddlers. And while that may be true in some ways, thereās one major difference: theyāll never āgrow up.ā
They wonāt move out, make their own choices, or change things they didnāt like about their upbringing the way a child eventually can.
You are your dogās life ā start to finish.
Whether they have a great life or not largely comes down to their experience with you.
Thatās an incredible gift⦠but also an incredible responsibility.
We need to treat it as such ā and respect these amazing creatures we get the privilege of spending far too short a time with."
With Neirah turning 12, Iām realizing how quickly our time together has passed ā and how much I want to prioritize what we have left.
Sheās quite literally my best friend.
About 9 years ago, during a particularly rough time in my life, I made her three promises.
At the time, I was either in university or working every day of the week. We lived in a small condo in the city, and life felt chaotic. Neirah was one of the best parts of my day, and I made sure to take her on long walks ā but I wanted to give her more.
So I promised her three things:
1) Iād have at least one day off a week to spend with her
2) Iād get us a yard so she could spend more time outside
3) Iād take her to see the ocean one day
This dog loves rolling more than any dog Iāve ever met (including rolling in manure in my most recent video⦠facepalm š
). And I just knew she would LOVE the beach: the smells, the sand, the ocean⦠the rolling potential.
At the time, those goals felt completely out of reach. But slowly, I checked them off.
I finished university and finally had weekends off to hike with her.
Then a few years ago, I moved into a home with a beautiful backyard.
But seeing the ocean⦠I kept putting that one off.
We had an incredible decade together in Alberta. Sheās gone on more hikes and seen more mountain peaks than most humans ever will. But somehow, there was never enough time ā or money ā to make the full trip back to BC.
Then last year, my perspective shifted.
She tore her CCL and needed TPLO surgery, followed by a long, painful recovery.
And twice, the vet suggested biopsying lumps on her stomach due to cancer concerns.
Sheās doing great now, but it was a reminder of time.
You donāt always get the chance to do the things you keep putting off.
So here she is ā Neirah on the beach, living her best life.
And yes, she loved it every bit as much as I thought she would.
But Iāve also learned something important:
Dogs donāt actually care about these ābig moments.ā Not the way we do.
Iām glad I fulfilled those three promises ā but in reality, they were more promises to myself.
I recently heard a parenting quote:
"Donāt get so focused on giving your child a good life that you forget to give them a good day."
And I think that applies to dogs too.
The beach was incredible, and Iām so glad we did it. But Neirah would have been just as happy if it never happened.
Dogs donāt need big trips or grand gestures.
They need kindness.
They need time with you.
They need enrichment, play, and a few extra treats.
With simple, consistent effort, we can give them a great life and a great day.
So today ā give your dog a great day.
They deserve it.
Thanks for reading. If you have a dog beside you right now⦠go give them an extra scratch from me and Neirah š
Want to share this with someone? Hereās the blog version:
My dog turned 12, and it made me rethink everything. This is what Iāve learned about giving dogs a truly good lifeābefore time runs out.