01/20/2026
I saw something that really baffled me today …
I feel like some of this stuff needs to be brought to the front line & discussed so here I am with another Ted talk subject..
Internet bashing - you can only IMAGINE where this is headed…
I saw a post this morning someone who seemed kind & genuine simply looking for accomplished barrel trainers to send his horse to.. seems simple right it stated “LOOKING FOR” not “WHO TO LOOK OUT FOR”
24 reply’s… 24 REPLYS TO PEOPLE ABSOLUTELY CAUSING INSANITY IF YOU ASK ME…
One lady has an absolute hard obsession like flys on rice to TEAR a fellow horse trainer to shreds not only is her grammar actually translation 🤔 - she’s DEFINITELY crossing all lines of slander & people won’t stop replying..
Let’s be honest here folks. If that lady said this to your face you’d either punch her or say nothing why? Because you’d know face to face it was an ugly personality to have and no one you want to hang out with so why fuel that fire.
Heres my point..
I see so much so often someone will post asking a question a simple one, a common one, for an opinion, for research - you name it there is a reason but so often I’m finding it crazy how people think thats an open invitation to declare war.. what are we doing people?!
The only way to stop negativity is to not feed it & we’re all all guilty of it. Myself I am guilty of letting people HAVE IT professionally in a comment thread but lately I’ve noticed it has no subject line involved in the original post.
Even when i post a horse for sale my back gets up thinking of the comment section & I shouldn’t think like that.
We’re all struggling, we’ve all got stories, we’ve all suffered hardship somewhere in life & in reality we’re not against one another when we cross a timer & run back down an alley sure but when our tires flat on the side of a busy highway, when our good horses get hurt, when our spouses pass away, when we get in an accident or wreck, when we lose everything from a devastating circumstances we’ve all got EACH OTHER.
Stop letting the internet be an open invitation to hurt people’s feelings, validate some ugly screen shots some random person agreeing with you is sending without both sides of a story or giving your opinion where it isn’t asked for pm someone if your so concerned they’ll pick a trainer that you may have PERSONALLY been victimized by like the grown up your suppose to be.
Stop. This. Behaviour.
Sincerely Remmy & Jessica. 🩷
