02/13/2026
Management can absolutely replace training.
Typical training is performance, management is living. Especially when the training isn’t accessible. And so much of it isn’t.
There is a heavy focus on training behaviours *out* of dogs. Looking for this external validation of a “well behaved dog”. It isn’t actually about focusing on meeting you and your dog’s needs along the way.
Being disabled means I have limited capacity. It does not mean that I shouldn’t get to enjoy having pets. And a massive lesson I learned very quickly is that typical dog training can be incredibly inaccessible to so many people.
Another thing I learned? There are so many things that I am not going to waste my energy on that I would so much rather just manage.
- Penny eats cat poo, so the cat litter is behind a gate
- Penny LOVES visitors, and so to allow people to get inside and keep everyone safe, there’s a gate.
- If we’re outside in the yard, since Penny gets excited when people come in, guess what? There’s a double gate system so that people can get in and safely close the gate behind them and she can’t potentially run out.
- Penny gets excited to see people and she jumps, and while I do worry about her physical safety, I don’t actually care about the behaviour itself. So people can reach down to her level to greet her, or not greet her at all.
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