06/06/2021
[YOUR DOG IS WATCHING YOU]
Dogs are incredibly good at communicating with their bodies. We often mention the calming signals they use. But it is also true that dogs are very good at observing and understanding the body language of others, including us, humans.
We tend to pay very little attention to our own movements and facial expressions. Yet unconsciously we are constantly communicating something to our dog with our body language. And it can mean a lot to our dogs! 🤨
Imagine being in a foreign country and not understanding a word of what people are trying to tell you. You would also look very carefully for nonverbal cues.
For our dogs these include:
🔸 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 - dogs will pay attention to the direction of your face and body and will usually follow you. Therefore, when calling your dog or asking your dog to follow you it makes more sense to face the direction you would like them to go instead of facing and looking at your dog.
🔸 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 - dogs will often understand how you feel from how you breathe: breathing quietly will communicate calmness while if you breathe excitedly or heavily it will likely make your dog more excited or worried. So taking a slow, deep breath in stressful situations to calm yourself and your dog is a good idea!
🔸 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤 - studies have shown that dogs will follow the pace of a person walking with the dog. We often say - if you want your dog to slow down, start by slowing down yourself.
🔸 𝐓𝐞𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 - dogs will notice if you are tense and still. They will likely get suspicious or worried, too. On the other hand, a relaxed body and movement will make a dog more relaxed as well.
🔸𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐝𝐲 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 - dogs often find it threatening when people bend over or look down at them, even when people mean well. It's best to avoid leaning or bending forward when you are near dogs. We can squat or sit down to make our communication more pleasant when we need to get close to our dog.
🔸 Dogs notice tiny movements of our faces and look at 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 to understand how you feel and what they can expect from an interaction with you. For example, some dogs love it when we smile and feel good, and others would hide once they see their caregiver has an angry expression on her face.
🔸𝐂𝐚𝐥𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐬 - dogs do understand when we are being polite and using certain calming signals - for example, it's very polite to curve when you approach a dog instead of walking in a straight line. Another polite gesture is looking to the side instead of staring directly at the dog.
These small things we do can make a big difference in the relationship with our dogs. It is especially relevant for sensitive or fearful dogs, but all dogs will appreciate our polite communication skills. 😎