17/04/2026
One thing I keep thinking about is just how much control we have over horses.
We control where they live, what they eat, how much they eat, when they eat, who they live with, whether they get to go outside, whether they get companionship, whether they get enough forage, whether they are stressed, whether they are comfortable, and then on top of all that, we control the training.
That is an enormous amount of power to have over another living being.
I was trimming a horse last week and the owner had an apple in her pocket. The horse knew she did. She used pressure to back the horse up and then she played with his mouth. The horse got frustrated and bit her.
And honestly, that should make us stop and think.
From the horse’s point of view, there was food right there, but also pressure, expectation, uncertainty around what was expected and a new person in the mix (me), and restriction. That creates conflict. Then when the horse reacts to that conflict, we blame the horse.
But the real issue is that we put the horse in this situation and people often do not understand how upsetting and confusing this can be for the animal. They think they are doing something fun. They think the horse is being rude or naughty. When really, the horse may just be frustrated, conflicted, frightened, and not coping.
We do not get to control every part of an animal’s life and then act shocked when they have feelings about it.
If a horse lives with restricted food, stress around resources, isolation, pressure, confusion, and discomfort, and then we walk in with something highly valuable in our pocket while using training that relies on the horse feeling uncomfortable or frightened enough to respond, we should not be surprised when that creates emotional fallout.
Food is an incredibly powerful reinforcer. That means it can be used beautifully, ethically, and clearly, but it can also be used very badly.
If you are using food while also relying on pressure, discomfort, fear, or intimidation, you are creating conflict.
If you are expecting a horse to perform something they do not understand, pressuring them through it, then showing them food, and then punishing them for trying to get the food, that is not fair. That is not clear. That is not ethical.
It is our responsibility as owners to get educated.
That means learning about species-appropriate living, access to forage, social needs, stress around food, emotional state, frustration, correct interpretation of body language, and how reinforcement actually works.
It also means understanding that training with food is not just handing out treats. It is a real skill, and if we are going to use it, we need to learn how to do it properly.
A few simple things that help:
Don’t keep treats in your pocket where the horse knows they are there but cannot access them. This is effectively teasing them and causing frustration.
The same goes for having feed, buckets, nice hay, or grass in sight that they cannot access. It all creates stress around food.
Don’t use food alongside pressure, discomfort, fear, or intimidation and assume that makes it kind.
Make food as calm and predictable as possible.
Food should be free flowing and fibrous. Low sugar, high fibre feed like hay or chaff.
You can use the horses regular feed so it’s not a novelty.
Because horses deserve better than being confused, frustrated, and punished for reacting honestly to the situations we create for them.
If you want to learn the foundations of using food reinforcement in a way that is clear, calm, and fair for the horse, that is exactly what I teach in my online course.