
28/07/2025
Why I Waited: The Importance of Age and Individual Development in Backing a Young Horse
Following on from the conversation around “breaking” versus “backing,” it’s worth looking at another often-debated aspect of starting young horses: when to do it.
In many breed, particularly lighter types like the Australian Stock Horse or breeds like the Crosby, it’s still common practice to back horses at two years old. In some disciplines, horses are even in full work or competition by three. But that timeline has never felt quite right for me.
So why have I waited so long?
My current young horse is nearly four. And yes, by some standards, that might seem “late” to be starting under saddle. But when I look at him, I still see a baby, physically, mentally, and emotionally. He’s growing, changing shape, and learning how to manage his body and emotions. Starting him earlier may have been possible, but it wouldn’t have served him.
The science supports this slower approach. A horse’s bones, particularly in the spine, don’t finish developing until around 5 to 7 years of age. Rushing into ridden work too early can set up lifelong physical issues. Just as importantly, young horses need time to develop confidence and trust in the people around them and feel safe enough to express natural curiosity. Some are bold explorers from the start, while others are more cautious and need time and support before they’re ready to engage with the world around them.
And it doesn’t matter what breed they are; waiting is more beneficial across the board. I backed my last horse, an Irish Sport Horse, at six years old. Physically he needed that time to develop across the back to carry a rider, but mentally he also wasn’t ready any earlier. Many people told me I should have started him sooner because of his size. To me, that was more reason to wait. Bigger horses often take longer to mature, not less and pushing a large, still-developing horse into work too early can do more harm than good.
Every horse is different. Breed, build, temperament, and life experience all play a role. But for me, choosing to wait has been about prioritising long-term soundness, both mentally and physically. I want a horse who enjoys the work, who is ready to learn, and who has a solid foundation that sets him up for a long and happy ridden life.
There’s no medal for being the first one on. The reward is in the connection you build and the horse you bring along slowly, with thought and care.🥰