18/02/2026
There was a period recently where training took a back seat for us.
Disability-related fatigue, mental load, and family demands all landed at once, and for a few weeks my capacity was just… lower. Less energy. Less confidence. Less sense of momentum.
What surprised me most wasn’t what we lost — it was what we didn’t.
Rory’s trust didn’t disappear.
His ability to settle stayed intact.
Our bond didn’t weaken.
And even when I felt less confident heading out and about, Rory wasn’t.
That steadiness didn’t come from pushing through or drilling skills.
It came from the relationship we’ve built over time.
I’m sharing this because I know how quickly disabled handlers can assume they’re doing something wrong when capacity dips. A quieter season doesn’t mean your foundation is fragile. Often, it means it’s doing exactly what it’s meant to do.
Relationship is resilient.
If this sounds familiar and you need support that values sustainability over speed, that support is available — and you don’t have to wait until you feel “back on track” to reach out.