09/08/2025
Let's have a chat about when things don't go to plan, fall apart and/ or fail.
Because it sucks.
While I always love posting about all the fun things about working with the different therapies I provide and personally don't like long winded posts, there are many owners and therapists feeling this way. I know I am not alone in this experience.
Ultimately there are no other options but to pause for a moment, look at the situation and realise it's not going to happen. No matter how hard we juggle all the tasks.
For me the past few weeks have been trying (actually big chunks of the year) - and for many clients and colleagues they have expressed they have felt the same. While my reach is small, I just want you to know that you are not alone.
Whatever your goal is, please don't give up. It's ok to ask for help or guidance, vent to people you are close to, take a break, reassess, try something from a different angle.
While I can insert many corny motivational quotes, give a list of things that you can do to help these situations. Sometimes it's just easier to say, I tried, but it didn't work! It’s not going to define who you are as a person, it's just a part of the human experience.
While my usual sign off tags are “Love your horses’ lymph” and “Love your lymph”.
I hope that you really stop fighting yourself. It's not going to help. From anger, shame, embarrassment and resentment. These wont help, this also speaking from experience.
Appreciate that great things take time, and your timeline is not for others to decide. It is up to you and it’s not always progress that is linear.
Accepting things as they are, processing emotions and actions and understanding that this is part of life, will help you move forward.
You are just working things out to the best of your ability. Forgive yourself, acknowledge what you have done well.
Laugh, take a break, do things that you love and your sparkle will come back.