27/01/2022
Here are a few pics from me working with my daughters new horse. Now some people will look at these and think that this horse is being naughty, and that he is scary and dangerous.
This horse is just showing me how he feels, so I see a horse being expressive, and I look on in admiration at the balance in his rear, and wow look how high he can kick up.
I am not looking to dominate a horse and create an obedient robot, I never want a horse to feel that he can't talk to me and show me how he feels, there are plenty of shutdown , obedient horses out there, but they are not happy horses.
I want to create a connection, have a conversation, ask how I can help you. If you never ask anything from your horse, sure you might stay under a false security blanket and believe that your horse is fine, but then when you take him out of his comfort zone, you may very well have a kite at the end of your lead, not the sweet puppy that you have at home.
So in a safe environment, I like to help the horse to realise that he doesn't need to fight me, be scared of me, that he is allowed to express himself, that he is allowed to make mistakes, and I will just reset and calmly ask again, and I always have a gold star ready for the little tries that he gives.
They soon begin to look for the rewards, and I am not talking about treats, but a rub and a well done boy, good job sort of reward. That is when they will begin to look for the answer, and be confident to try new things, and they realise that they will not be in trouble if they get it wrong. Then the partnership can move forward and that is where the magic begins.
So when I am faced with a horse like in these pics, I celebrate that he is showing me how he feels, and then we can begin our journey to peace and partnership. All of this leads to a confident , well balanced and well adjusted horse under saddle, it is all connected.π
P.S please excuse my attire π