22/12/2025
Rightio folks. .. I AM DONE !!
BUCKLE UP !!
(This will likely be a long one but its been a LONG TIME COMING)
I have ZERO REGRETS for what i am about to air, as I REFUSE to be a "push over", & if you think you have the ability to try "intimidate" me , i will politely outline that you clearly DO NOT have any idea of the person I am .
I have had ENOUGH & i am far beyond the end of my "tether" , regarding people not being understanding of my life & what I am going through and trying to juggle in my personal & business life.
This post may come as a surprise regarding me being so direct & upfront , as my long term GENUINE followers know me well enough & UNDERSTAND that I am a very loving & empathetic person , so the following words may be very unexpected..
but MUST & NEED to be said .
I'm the kind of person that would take my own shirt off my back in a snow storm to try help & warm a complete stranger ...
It has become quite apparent to me that there a some "creatures" out there that think they can PUSH ME AROUND to get what they want -
ON THEIR CLOCK...
If you do not take note of the following then you're about to learn a very hard & VALID lesson on morality among other things ..
If you dare try test my patience any further , you will find out the hard way that I am NOT the kind of person you can intimidate ..
(you're so very welcome in advance on what will follow if you think im joking 🤭😏😝)
I am VERY old fashioned & I highly value having morals & most importantly- UNDERSTANDING and empathy for others & situations that are out of one's control ..
I do GREATLY thank & acknowledge my followers/clients that have been VERY UNDERSTANDING & PATIENT with me regarding paperwork, chip transfers & desexing refunds during this VERY difficult & stressful point in my life .
It will likely strike a nerve with some people (SPECIFIC clients) who are not used to being put in their place & / or , are not used to dealing with someone that DOES NOT & WILL NOT accept being pressured or pushed around ..
I understand that you are waiting on certain matters to be processed ie; chip transfers or Desexing refunds etc that i am late with processing .
I will though confidently outline that clearly either you DO NOT have a heart or were raised by entitled parents that passed it on to yourselves, that you feel you are worthy of being a priority or feel you can be "intimidating" (that's laughable btw) in an extremely busy, physically unwell (VERY) & stressed womans life that is hanging on by a thread as it is (suffers physical issues , personal health issues, relationship problems & battles having CPTSD due to being severely physically abuse for over 25 years of her life).
Let me give you a little tip kids ...
(you self entitled, selfish F&cks)
being a rude D&ck is only going to put you on the very END of my "to process list"...
Heck, I might even throw you off the page at this point in time.
You may want to note the following...
You are dealing with a woman
that has NOTHING to lose , you may want to keep that in mind when you get your cute little boyfriend to email to me with a paragraph that you & he feels will intimidate me enough to process your demand INSTANTLY...
Yes you achieved something & that my dear was becoming the last person on my list to deal with (YOU ARE WELCOME BABE 🤪).
I DO NOT CARE if I lose "followers" or potential "clients" over this post , truly...
The old fashioned ones & those who actually have VALUES & MORALS will stand by me & i know exactly who they are , I will always PRIORITISE those who have the same morals, empathy & understanding that sometimes life can get in the way .
I am not just a "dog breeder" ..
If I'm being 100% honest I despise having to deal with certain types of people in this field ...
The ONLY REASON why i keep doing what I do with my breeding program IS NOT $ , my expenses are actually more then the $ that comes into my account .. .
I do what I do for a few reasons but I will outline the main reasons below which are the only things that make me persist with my program and dealing with "difficult clients" at times as it all outweighs the bad & the mental toll it personally takes on me..
1:
To help others with mental health issues and struggles , to be able to help give them a special baby that helps them cope every day , a baby that gives them a reason and "want" to continue their life when depression grips them so hard they feel they just cannot keep going , but then they look into their babies eyes and they give them inner strength to keep going .. my babies provide the love & assistance to keep one going in life instead of wanting to "pull the trigger" . (I get it , from someone who struggles with severe depression myself).
2:
My focus on bettering the breeds health & long gevity, by eradicating the severe health issues the "Cavaliers" were so unfortunately seen as a "health prone" breed to which came close to becoming an extinct breed due to terrible breeding .
Followed by my focus on bringing back the "Original CKCS" in appearance & personality BUT eradicating the health issues they were/are unfortunately have the reputation of . .. My goal is to hopefully get rid of the "bad stigma" the CKCS has been known for, for so many generations. .
To breed Original style cavvies, small in size but most importantly - in healthy PROPORTION including the sweet gentle personalities and what they were initially "used" for in the "Royals" homes ...
a highly intelligent, inquisitive, loyal companion that eradicated the "pests" in the home ..
Which to me is indicative of supreme intelligence & in this era is most helpful to those with "special" needs , as their intelligence and LOYALTY is superior and I know for a fact my babies have pulled me out of some VERY dark places over the years ...
3:
I was born to be an animal empath & to serve animals of all kinds & to try help ANY AND ALL kinds of creatures with a heart beat ... (humans are though questionable 😅)
My dogs are my calling , I was born to do this ..
To help others & provide families with the same amount of love & support that my babies bring into my life... to share that with others is a true blessing & an honour , so I suppose when I have "difficult" or non empathetic clients its strikes a nerve & I WILL stand up for myself at any and ALL costs !
Even if it results in criminal charges ...
My babies are my entire world along with me being a very old fashioned , country woman , and I do not take kindly to threats or intimidation .
We all have a personal life & i do not appreciate people that do not take into consideration someone's personal circumstances ..
You may have a cruisey life and see a "minor" thing as a deal breaker... but please remember the VALID saying "there's always someone out there that has it worse off then you do, so try put yourself in their shoes instead of your 4 walled cube". ..
So this is where I will state that I WILL NOT be processing any pooch related work or admin work until I am mentally READY to jump back into it all ..
MY MENTAL HEALTH is more important then your paperwork or refund regarding desexing right now & if you do not like that then I hope you appreciate my response when I get around to dealing with you .
I have 3 children & haven't even had the chance to THINK about Christmas shopping for them .
I don't even own a Christmas tree either, as I have not had TIME due to trying to deal with everyone's requests , rehome most of my babies, relocate everything I own to over 4 hours away , among a MASSIVE TO DO LIST including repairing my imported vehicles so that I can SAFELY shift them to Brisbane as I do not trust tilt tray truckers around here.
I haven't even found a school to enrol my children in either... I could be here for months writing everything else to try explain to all you small minded folk . (Specific, selfish, new age people).
My personal health, my marriage , my furkids & 2 legged kids are my priority right now , not you .
Wait in line or deal with me being "direct & unprofessional" ..
the choice is yours because I have absolutely nothing to lose .
If you have an issue with the way I roll then PHONE ME directly or better yet meet me in person !
Yours TRULY
Mrs Vicky A Hansen .
Have a wonderful bloody Christmas.
Love always
THE GRINCH
