23/04/2026
Try this: pause for two seconds after your horse tries.
That pause is where the learning settles.
In my early years, one of my mentors would say, “Let’s stop and smoke a cigarette and let the horse soak for a while.” Now, we didn’t actually smoke—nor am I advocating that—but it was his way of saying: give the horse time to think and process the training.
Another mentor once told me, “If you leave your horse in a good place, when you come back to continue training, he’ll pick up where you left him.” I am so grateful for these early lessons.
Now, all these years later, I’m the one instructing counting. I’m advising riders to count before they ask, to take a moment to pause. It’s been said to me, “There is a calm presence around your barn.” This is no accident.
Over years of working with horses and people, I’ve learned to be quiet, to take my time.
Try it—pause, count, breathe.
I’d love to hear how it works for you?
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