28/07/2025
"'Running scared' is how I overheard a cowboy once characterize jumper horses. He criticized the discipline for forceful training, resulting in fearful horses that perform only out of stress, rather than a willing consent. I would have rolled my eyes at the western horseman who clearly spoke from a different riding universe, ignorant of our sophisticated industry, but I’d just witnessed him communicating with a horse in a manner I previously thought impossible.
The clinic demonstration began in a tight round pen shared by the cowboy and a tough, borderline dangerous, young mare. She matched the expression of a naively confident adolescent—slightly intimidating but obviously foolish. Her tense owner stood next to me, holding her breath, desperate for a breakthrough in her horse’s willingness to be handled. She watched with hope while I watched with the same arrogant skepticism the young mare displayed.
His first move looked ridiculous, as he obnoxiously flapped an orange flag attached to a dressage whip in order to encourage the mare to move around him. To my eyes, the interaction appeared chaotic—a frenzy of flapping, waving, and rapid trotting without aim. I couldn’t comprehend what he was accomplishing.
However, the chaos clarified with the cowboy’s calm narration. Through announcing the purpose of each small step and predicting every move she’d make next, I realized the chaos was more of a synchronized dance than a mess of motion. Every beat was a cue or a response. The partners moved deliberately, but the cowboy led the dance.
Randomly and suddenly (at least to my untrained eye), he set the flag down and leaned casually against the round pen fence. The mare fixed her eyes on him, but he kept his gaze low.
“I’m going to give her a minute to decide to come to me,” he explained. The hyper-focused arena crowd kept silent, as if something important were about to happen. Everyone was still. Several minutes passed but the mare’s stare never broke, and the cowboy didn’t move an inch nor lose his impressively secure patience.
The cowboy’s willingness to wait was commendable, but I was more impressed by the horse’s intellectual stamina. She stood thinking for several minutes, revealing an attention span I didn’t know horses were capable of. Maybe I wasn’t aware because I’d never allowed a horse indefinite, uninterrupted time to contemplate."
🔗 Read the full article by Elyse Schenk at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2020/05/21/from-the-ground-up-rethinking-the-relationship-with-your-horse/
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