02/11/2025
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🏇 The Race That Stops a Nation – A Call to Pause and Reflect
The first Tuesday in November, Australia will stop and watch the Melbourne Cup - in tea rooms, boardrooms, racecourses, pubs, and luncheons venues.
I urge everyone to take a few moments to read this🫶.
Read it aloud.
Share it with your colleagues, your friends, your guests.
Let it be a moment to honour the horses that make this day possible, and to reflect on what their lives can teach us about our own.
Because beyond the race, the glamour, and the noise - there’s wisdom, heart, and truth in every Thoroughbred’s story❤.
Rules of Life, According to Thoroughbreds
➡️Rule 1: Genetics matter - but not that much.
Some are bred to sprint, others to stay the distance.
But pedigree only sets the odds - it doesn’t decide the outcome.
You might be genetically blessed for speed or struggle, but in the end, it’s the other stuff that wins races.
➡️Rule 2: Genetics come second to your mother.
In racing, broodmare calmness, maternal instinct, and temperament matter more than bloodlines.
In life, it’s the same - a good mother, or anyone who loves and grounds you, sets the stage for you to thrive.
Recognise those people. Honour and be grateful for them, and when it’s your turn, be that grounding presence for someone else.
➡️Rule 3: Education makes or breaks you.
A horse’s potential can be nurtured or wrecked by the hands that train it.
Same with people. Good guidance builds confidence; bad guidance builds therapy bills.
We’re all teachers - so teach with care and thought, and set others up to discover that their capabilities and worth already live inside them.
➡️Rule 4: Run your own race.
The best Thoroughbreds don’t look sideways; they have a rare trait for horses - independence from the herd.
They can operate with less impact from others and their environment. They can keep their focus without distraction.
We are no different. A sense of security in who you are - the ability to focus, to know what to give a damn about, and when to let go - is the greatest thing you can learn.
➡️Rule 5: Life is bloody hard - and that’s normal.
No horse comes off the track without scars, and neither do we.
Resilience isn’t pretending it doesn’t hurt - it’s knowing when to push, when to rest, and when to let go.
Eat well, sleep well, move your body - and don’t let hardship turn you into a victim.
People think horses are scared creatures - the truth is, they’re the fastest learners, and that makes them the bravest, toughest, and kindest animals on the planet.
➡️Rule 6: People will misjudge you - forgive them anyway.
Off-the-track Thoroughbreds get called hot and difficult.
They’re not - they just need retraining from a professional role that’s very different from what’s required at pony club.
Everyone’s unlearning something and doing their best at learning something new - and sometimes that’s hard.
Respect that, and you’ll start seeing greatness where others see trouble.
➡️Rule 7: Value isn’t price - it’s what you’ve learned.
A million-dollar yearling will most likely end up a $500 retiree.
What rarely protects a horse is the money or races it won.
What does protect a horse - or a human - is education, adaptability, and health.
Worth isn’t what you cost; it’s what you carry.
➡️Rule 8: Your environment matters.
No one becomes healthy or capable alone.
Horses heal when they get the basics right - good food, good care, good company, exercise, and time.
Their gut settles, their body rebuilds, and their mind follows.
We’re the same.
We heal from the inside out - through what we eat, how we rest, who we spend time with, and how we move.
Surround yourself with people who look after themselves, balance you, and remind you that you matter.
And leave others better than you found them.
So here’s to the Thoroughbreds - and to us.
Born with potential on paper, then shaped - for better or worse — by what we go through and who we have beside us.
Mislabeled, misunderstood, magnificent.
We run, we fall, we heal, we grow -
and if we’re wise, we do it beside people who steady us, challenge us, remind us who we are, and bring out our best.
Final Note:
This piece began as my wedding speech - written to honour my husband and our guests with the lessons horses have taught me about life, love, and resilience. Please share it widely, not just on Melbourne Cup day, but anytime it might inspire reflection.
I only ask that you don’t copy or republish it without permission.
IMAGE 📸: By Isabelle Chandler. Together, we run Racehorse to Riding Horse – The Off-The-Track Reboot, a program dedicated to helping people support retired racehorses as they transition successfully into new homes and new roles.
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