02/09/2026
When we are training our horses and other animals, there is behaviour and there is an emotion that becomes associated with that behaviour.
But we don’t train an emotion, we are not clicking and reinforcing happy or relaxed or whatever. We train a behaviour and depending on how we’ve trained, a particular range of emotions is created and becomes associated with the behaviour, ourselves and other things including the context.
Many people seem to think that there is only Positive Reinforcement (R+) to train our horses and other animals. Or that the only other alternative to R+ is Negative Reinforcement (pressure and release, R-).
But we have an amazing (force free) tool box we can call upon when training, particularly when we are dealing with fear and uncertainty. But it’s not only for that, it’s for introducing things such as halters, rugs, boots, fly veils, being hosed, being sprayed, travelling and also bridles and saddles. They may have an unhappy history or may simply be novel to the horse. It could be as simple as asking your horse to soak their hoof in a bucket.
We can change how they feel without them really being aware of it, if we do it well enough, it’s pretty amazing.
If we are dealing with fear or simply wanting to train a horse to accept something we put on them or do to them or somewhere they need to be, we are not necessarily asking them to *do* something, so we don’t need to use R+ training. We can utilise Systematic Desensitisation (SD) and Counter Conditioning (CC). We can use a bridge/click, but it's not essential, it depends what we are doing.
It is absolutely invaluable to learn how SD and CC works and become good at breaking things down into the smallest components or exposures that you can. In this respect, it is not that dissimilar to how we train when we shape in very small successive approximations with R+ BUT there is no contingency, no "strings attached" on receiving the low value food.
Learning to watch how your horse responds to things is useful, but you don’t need to be an expert on reading body language or calming signals. If you are doing a SD and CC procedure, all you need to think about is whether the horse tried to get away or avoid the stimulus that you are conditioning? If they *behave* in any way in response to the thing, then you’ve probably exposed them too much. If we trigger the fear response, we risk sensitising and not desensitising them to the thing. Escape or avoidance behaviour could be as small as a slight lean away, look away or being slow to take or eat the food or alternatively, too fast.
SD and CC is not easy and if you think you’ve broken it down into the smallest pieces possible and are not getting results, I’ll bet you can get creative and break it down even more. This takes skill and creativity! The great thing is that you can never go wrong in breaking something down too small and if you’re observant enough, your horse will tell you when you haven’t broken it down enough.
For example I see a lot of people do things like rug training or saddle training and they start with the rug or the saddle pad or saddle. That's pretty much the largest exposure you can offer the horse, it should be the last exposure of the stimulus, not the first!
This is something I specialise in and I see a lot of people struggle understanding and executing a good SD and CC program. I can help!
I have a fb post that covers this topic in a lot more depth, with some great links to even further reading. Let me know if any of the links do not work. I'll put the post link in the comments.