18/06/2025
This smile - captured perfectly timed on her face says it all!
Every other photo of her is usually a very awkward “game face” look of concentration we usually have a good laugh at.
This is a smile of relief, of pure accomplishment.
After going out full of doubts that they would even finish. She is almost home clear, she’s past the big scary ditch she thought would end them and is realising she has reached a point she didn’t believe she has him at yet.
Regardless of what you tell them, they have to feel it for themselves.
So many WTB adds “no TB” 👎 they are all missing out!
This horse was free OTT and she has put in all the work to teach him a whole new way of life. We could easily have spent thousands and brought her a horse someone else taught and it would never have given her this feeling!
I knew it and won’t do it.
The fact she knows it = parenting win!
We don’t do perfect here we do real!
Social media these days is filled with skewed views of only the perfect wins.
It’s a world of filters and comparisons.
No one posts the whole picture, the day to day struggles, learnings, the miss steps and pain of the process in order to get the growth.
It needs to be shared more and maybe then they would doubt themselves less!
Every 5* rider stumbled along on their own journey and chose to keep going. These kids need to know that and the only way is to see it shared more.
I share way more awkward and ugly than the opposite.
My girls work so hard!
Every feed, every rug change, every day. They rarely get a day off. No one does this for them.
They load/unload and stack bales of hay. They’ve spent days with me and built paddocks!
The resilience this teaches them I don’t think there’s a better gift in this world we can give them as parents.
Most days we feel like we are crazy and question our life choices. There are days she doesn’t want to do it anymore (me too 😝)
Especially in winter!
Especially considering 18months ago I was picking up hay rounds for $40 and now it’s a logistical mission to get them for $200 a roll 🤦♀️
Then I see bits like this picture and I feel the joy she experienced with herself on this day and I know that we need to just keep swimming.
Horse life, lessons to last a life time.