04/06/2026
Yesterday marked one year since we said goodbye to our beautiful boy, Ernie. Booked myself out… man it was hard.
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you.
It’s so hard to believe it’s already been a year, and at the same time, it feels like yesterday.
I miss your beautiful temperament, the way you smelt, and the way you would lean into us for cuddles. I miss how you just knew when someone needed you. I miss everything about you.
The truth about grief is that it doesn’t disappear. It changes shape, but it never really leaves. A year has passed, yet the ache remains. It hurts knowing how much time has gone by, and it hurts even more knowing that I will spend the rest of my life missing you.
Through that grief, though, I really do believe you sent Thumper to us. Almost a year later, this gorgeous little soul arrived when we needed him most. He has helped us smile again, laugh again, and heal a little. Sometimes he even does things that remind us so much of you that it stops us in our tracks.
Ernie Bear, we love you.
We miss you.
You will always be the best, bestest dog ever.
Baby boy, I hope you’re running free. Free from pain. Free from sickness. Free from all the things that made your final days so hard.
And I hope you know just how deeply loved you were.
I loved you.
We loved you.
Everybody loved you.
Thank you for every cuddle, every adventure, every laugh, and every memory.
And for anyone reading this who is dealing with grief—whether it’s a beloved pet, a family member, or a friend—please know you’re not alone. Grief is simply love with nowhere to go, and that love never disappears. The people and animals we love leave their marks on our hearts forever, and in that way, they never truly leave us.
Forever our boy.
❤️ 3 June 2025 ❤️
Forever in our hearts