11/07/2025
So it’s been a very very long time since I have posted anything and you may be wondering why.
Well, the reality was s there has been so many things going on from no water to critical hay shortages, making those hard decisions for our 4 legged kids and the hardest thing ever ……….. people.
Yes that’s right, people.
One thing I have had to deal with (as just about any trainer has felt), horse owners wanting an outcome without actually wanting to put the work in and having a good hard look at themselves as the problem, and wanting to change.
We as people need to look at ourselves first to see what we need to change in order to achieve a harmonious, safe and beautiful relationship with our horses.
It’s very mentally taxing to always hear “it’s the horses fault” when it’s absolutely not.
I’m have decided that this does not work for me anymore and if people don’t want to change, I am not putting my precious energy into those people.
This of course from a business perspective is not sustainable but, that’s ok with me.
I feel for the horses I have to abandon as it’s always been about their welfare and growth, but I just can’t deal with people like that anymore.
PLEASE look at yourselves first.
(This little guy came in quite dangerous and had not interest in anyone. Now he’s happy and helathy both physically andd mentally. Turned into a curious cuddle monster and brings himself into bed with his buddy every night and back out to the paddock each morning).
