28/05/2026
Good reminders here for reading a dog's body language when patting.
I can. But Iām not going to.
I donāt want your dog to shrink away while I insist on ruffling their hair up.
They donāt need me to touch them to prove āIām safeā.
What they actually need is for me to keep my hands in my pocket and wait for some signals of consent.
We have a tactile āobsessionā when it comes to dogs.
Maybe it starts when theyāre puppies and their squidginess draws our hands in.
100% their fur and wee fat rolls combined are irresistible.
From there though, it can become a habit.
We see a person up the street we havenāt seen for a while, stop for a chat and our hand goes down to pat while we say āAww whose this wee girlā.
Thatās how easy these habits grow.
Theyāre ingrained.
How about we start to normalise not touching?
And start normalising watching for consent.