
14/07/2025
Little hearts break too 💔 And they need our help to make sense of the sadness.
How we grieve teaches our kids how to grieve too.
Saying goodbye to a pet is hard on everyone. Especially little ones.
They may not have the words, but they feel the weight of it.
• Give them permission to feel it all
• Let them ask questions - even the hard ones
• Use clear and honest language (eg "they died" instead of "went to sleep")
• Give them choices about how involved they want to be in saying goodbye
• Read books together about pet loss and grief
• Create keepsakes that hold memories
• Revisit the conversation as their understanding grows
And remember, it’s okay for them to see your grief too. They learn from your honesty and love.
This could help a parent, a teacher, or anyone guiding a child through loss. Share this with them - it might be just what they need right now.