26/04/2026
I have been a committed "life long learner" for as long as I can remember.
Something I have never concerned myself with is who else is in the room. Who the instructor is, sure thing, but the other students, no, I don't concern myself with them, or their 'level' of training.
Let me tell you why, and what I mean by that.
I have long said that I can book into a foundation clinic with my advanced horse, and still learn, still progress, despite having done foundation courses for the past 20 odd years.
And I can do that because that is my intention - to learn something.
Thats what I'm there for.
I am a heat seeking missile for the nuance, the refinement, the lesson.
Over the past 20 odd years I have also heard things like:
"Oh I've done foundation clinics, I need something more advanced"
"Who else is going to be in the class, i don't want to come if it is just beginners"
"You should come and teach our private group, we are more advanced than the other group you teach here"
Guess what?
The people saying those things are the ones that are holding themselves back. The very action of looking around and concerning ourself with what everyone else is doing, and that I am "better" than all of them, and this is 'baby stuff' thats the very thing that keeps these people stuck in repetitive cycles, because they blame the lack of learning on everyone else but themselves.
Phil is a Grandmaster Black Belt in Taekwondo. He first started training in 1985 - 41 years ago. I've watched him teach and perform 'Il Jang' ( the very first pattern you learn, the yellow belt pattern), countless times, and each time he performs it like it is the first time, like it matters.
Because it does.
You see, life long learners, strivers, doers and achievers are not focussed on how much better they are than everyone else, or blaming everyone else in the room for their lack of progress, they perform every "yellow belt pattern" like its the first time, every time.
So if I choose to do a clinic and the first thing the clinician tells us to do is a bend, or a hindquarter yield, I don't roll my eyes and think "I know this". I think "what can I learn about this"?