Fear-free Horse Training with Neil Davies

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My mission is to share my unique philosophy of horse training—a philosophy of reward instead of punishment, of co-operation instead of domination, of trust instead of fear, and above all, a philosophy where you and your horse learn and grow together

NEIL’S HORSE TRAINING HISTORYBy Christine DaviesI’ve known Neil since he was twenty and shared his love of horses for al...
06/06/2026

NEIL’S HORSE TRAINING HISTORY
By Christine Davies

I’ve known Neil since he was twenty and shared his love of horses for all those years.

While I rode my nicely trained (by Neil) horse five or six days each week, Neil rode at least eight or nine ‘outside’ horses that came to our stables for training and then he rode four or five of his own campdraft horses.

Day after day, month after month, year in year out.

Horse-wise, what he hasn’t seen and dealt with isn’t worth talking about.

I’ve lost count of the times I’ve seen Neil bitten, kicked, struck, trodden on, knocked down and run over by this horse or that horse.

And don’t start me on some of the terrified, badly-handled horses that he’s had to ride while they leaped, bounded, kicked-up, bucked, reared and bolted.

I’ve watched him start hundreds of over-fed, agitated, beautifully bred thoroughbreds under saddle.

Sometimes there’d be a grass-stained shirt in the laundry, where a young horse had fallen with him.

If I asked Neil what happened, he always said it wasn’t worth mentioning. He’s certainly learned what he knows by years and years of hands-on experience.

During his lifetime of working with horses, I believe the biggest thing that Neil has learned is to blame himself and to keep his temper, in every training situation.

He doesn’t blame any horse when things go wrong. He doesn’t shout or punish any horse or say that they’re mad or bad.

He deals with every horse training situation in the same way –he teaches every horse to be relaxed and confident with humans.

And the weird thing is, after a few lessons, all the horses start to look the same.

The littlest foal through to the oldest, most terrified, beaten-up horse all learn to enjoy having their head rubbed and learn to keep their head with Neil.

It’s always wonderful to watch when each horse comes to understand that they have something consistent and comforting to rely on in every situation.

Cute little foals look even cuter with their head cuddled confidently on Neil but it’s really, really brilliant to watch an older, frightened horse discover the same safe place where he can finally relax and know some kindness.

Too Much Feed and Not Enough WorkIn my grandfather’s day, horses had to earn their keep.A horse eating his head off out ...
04/06/2026

Too Much Feed and Not Enough Work

In my grandfather’s day, horses had to earn their keep.

A horse eating his head off out in the paddock wasn’t much use to anyone.

Not many people could afford to keep a horse as a pet or just to ride on Sunday.

Grandfather managed ‘Abbotsford’ at Picton, about 60 miles south west of Sydney.

At the time, it was the largest dairy farm in the southern hemisphere.

Five hundred cows were milked twice daily –not many by today’s standards but a big herd in those days when the average farmer milked about forty cows.

When petrol was rationed during World War 11, Grandfather ploughed, sowed and harvested with a team of about fifteen draught horses.

When a crop was being sown or harvested, the team worked six days a week for six or eight hours every day.

This was before my time, but whenever my father and uncles got together, they’d reminisce about growing up on the farm.

And there were always stories about Grandfather and his team of draught horses.

Nobody looked after horses better than Grandfather.

He always made sure each animal was well fed and well looked after.

He knew how to feed and look after horses that had to work all day.

Each horse was fed according to the amount of work he or she was doing at the time.

These days, not many people keep work horses.

Most stock work is done with motor bikes, and tractors have long replaced draught horse teams.

Horses are often kept as pets and rarely ridden.

Some are fed large amounts of grain and rich feed and then the owner wonders why their horse can’t stand still.

Many people don’t realise how much work a horse can do.

And many people don’t even know that they’re overfeeding their horse and not working him enough.

People think it’s kind to feed their horses buckets of grain and all sorts of special mixes, then they ride two or three times a week and wonder why they have problems.

When a horse has been overfed, it can take weeks of work to get the excess energy out of his system.

Some people think that horses can be calmed with drugs and ‘calming pastes’.

I certainly wouldn’t ride any horse that’s been drugged.

And I don’t think it’s fair to drug a horse just because you’re not prepared to put in the time and effort that’s needed to handle and ride him.

Instead of looking for some magic fix, how about feeding your horse appropriately and putting in the hours to train him correctly.

I see many horses that are given far too much feed and not enough work.

If you want to get the most from your horse, you must work with him at least five days a week.

Six days is better still.

Balancing the amount of feed and work that you give a horse plays a large part in every horse’s training.

Many people could save themselves a lot of heartache (and money) by feeding their horse less and working him more.

The Neil Davies story:By Colin DangaardNeil Davies is quietly but surely revolutionizing the horse world.Neil was reject...
03/06/2026

The Neil Davies story:
By Colin Dangaard

Neil Davies is quietly but surely revolutionizing the horse world.

Neil was rejected by every major publishing house in the world, after writing a book capturing a life working with horses in rural Australia. Too unusual, they said. Not what people want. The knowledge is unrecognizable, they said. Won’t sell, they said. Sorry.

So with his wife Chris, he pulled his savings together, found a printer and published it himself, throwing himself at Facebook after teaching himself how to use an iPhone.

Ten years later, the book FEAR-FREE HORSE TRAINING is selling up to 1,000 copies a month, he has more than 70,000 followers on Facebook, and thousands read his weekly blog posts. Not bad for a child of the 1950s, who still can’t “do” metres and centimetres and knew nothing of social media.

Neil Davies has become the J.K.Rowling of the horse publishing world, riding a broomstick all the way to the bank. Harry Potter would be impressed. There were many times during the tsunami of rejection that Neil fantasized about what he would do with publishers if ever he had control of a broomstick. But he is not that kind of person. Way too gentle.

He is the kind of person who can ask a horse to do just about anything it is possible for a horse to do, and the horse will do it.

Of course, there are people who say he just might be the most gifted horse trainer in the world today – or ever. Yes, his knowledge IS that unusual. It turns pages for people and causes horses to relax and learn. He doesn’t stand in front of the horse. He stands beside the horse, just kind of nudges him along with the attitude, hey mate, we can do this together.

I have had a ringside seat to Neil’s incredible journey. I was riding a tide of success selling Australian Stock Saddles in America 40 years ago when Neil arrived at my ranch in Malibu. He came wearing thongs, shorts and tee shirt. Said he was a horse trainer. Yeah, I thought. Good on ya mate. I told him I had an unbroken horse and he could do something with it.

Off walked Neil in his thongs, shorts and tee shirt, to the horse. “This will be funny” I thought. At that moment, I heard my name being called. It was “long distance.” I left to take the call.

Fifteen minutes later I returned and there was Neil standing on my horse’s back.

I don’t shock easily. But I was, well, momentarily speechless. Images sprang to mind. Me taking Neil to horse shows and managing his appointments and soon doing product deals with boot and feed companies. A pot of gold loomed before me.

A couple of months later in 1989, I did get him on the calendar for the California State Fair in Sacramento, where people turned up to the Cavalcade of Horses to watch Neil as the four o’clock show.

Neil’s demonstration lacked “wild” bucking horses and the ropes, flags and restraints loved by so many horse people. It lacked showmanship and fancy talk, because, to quote Neil, “you can’t talk and listen at the same time.” He concentrates wholly and solely on the horse.

Best of all, Neil’s presentation lacked the horse being used as a scapegoat – when it comes to teaching horses, Neil blames no-one but himself.

After eighteen days of demonstrating his horse insights, Neil’s show was voted one of the most popular at the Fair.

Fast forward to 2011 when a now retired Neil again visited me in Malibu. On the very last day of his visit, I organized a film crew to document Neil while he worked with one of my horses. The utter simplicity and effectiveness of his training approach amazed me all over again, and I said “Mate, you gotta share this. You should write down everything you know.”

I might as well have suggested he build a rocket ship.

“I’m not a writer,” he said.

“Well, let’s try,” I said. “Everybody is a writer. Only difference is some people write and some do not.”

And that was the beginning of a long relationship between Neil and his laptop and myself as writing coach and mentor.

Amazingly, Neil Davies developed a style that is eloquent and simple, working with words everybody understands. And so his incredible book was born, FEAR-FREE HORSE TRAINING, Every Step of the Way.

Horse owners have shown this IS what they want, an approach to the horse that is based on building confidence and simple methodology, absolute consistency laced with quiet kindness delivered in “horse time,” not people time. His key is removing fear.

Off the back of his book, Neil is developing video streaming, audio podcasts and new ways of marketing his message on the internet. He has become a one-man industry. Make that a two person industry. As they say, behind every successful man is a woman who loves him and knows how he works.

Chris Davies understands her man about as well as he understands horses.

Becoming a wildly successful self-published writer has only one drawback they did not anticipate: the physical labor involved hauling books on a daily basis from their beachfront home in NSW Australia, to the post office, for mailing around the world.

Your Safety is the Most Important ThingA friend of mine recently bought a stock horse mare at the local horse sale.‘I go...
01/06/2026

Your Safety is the Most Important Thing

A friend of mine recently bought a stock horse mare at the local horse sale.

‘I got a bargain,’ he said.

‘She’s only seven years old and she goes great.

Let me show you.’

He rode the mare around and she danced and pranced and jigged and jogged and was very nervous and worried.

She didn’t know how to relax.

The fellow thought this was great.

‘She’s got plenty of go in her,’ he told me.

I didn’t answer.

I looked in the mare’s mouth.

‘Looks more like seventeen than seven,’ I told him.

‘They said she was only seven,’ he replied.

Again, no comment from me.

‘Have a ride and see what you think.’

When I politely declined, he said ‘She’s gonna be great. You’ll see.’

The sad fact is, I’ve ridden hundreds of horses like this poor mare – horses who are worried and frightened every time anyone goes near them.

I didn’t particularly want to ride another one. It gives me no pleasure to ride such horses.

There are thousands of horses like this mare, who’ve been badly handled and mistreated for years on end.

These horses expect a bad experience every time they’re handled and ridden.

They’ve never been taught to be relaxed and confident with people.

All they’ve ever known is conflict and bad experiences.

Through no fault of their own, such horses make unreliable riding horses.

Whenever something out of the ordinary happens, they expect trouble and immediately panic.

Instead of stopping and thinking, they bolt or buck or pull back or kick or rear.

This is very dangerous for an unsuspecting or novice rider.

Let me repeat:

Horses like this are dangerous.

Every day I receive emails and messages from people who have horses like this.

People with the best intentions, who think they can ‘fix’ horses with these issues.

Yes, every horse can be improved but you must always remember that no-one can erase a horse’s memory.

No-one can make a horse forget the bad experiences he’s been through.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is well recognised these days.

People who’ve been through traumatic experiences are affected for the rest of their lives.

They never forget.

And it’s exactly the same with horses who’ve been frightened.

They’re affected for the rest of their lives.

Regardless of what anyone tells you, a horse four-years or older who’s been frightened and mistreated and doesn’t trust people, can’t be made reliable.

And the older the horse is, the more difficult the task of gaining his trust becomes.

I find it very worrying that so many inexperienced horse people think they can ‘fix’ a frightened, older horse.

People with very little skill and experience go out of their way to find a mistreated horse and then wonder why they can’t overcome all the problems they encounter.

The most worrying part of all this is that it’s very dangerous and you can be badly injured.

It takes years of experience for a novice horse-person to develop the necessary skills to handle a frightened or mistreated horse.

Nobody can give you that experience and nobody can give you a magic formula to ‘fix’ a horse.

When you buy a horse, your safety must be the first and foremost consideration.

Don’t put yourself at risk by starting with a horse that’s too difficult for you.

Find a quiet, safe, reliable horse to start with.

People are injured, and worse, by horses every day.

Please don’t be one of them.

Meanwhile, what happened to the mare that my friend bought at the sale?

After about a month, he quietly sold her to another unsuspecting person.

And so the problem continues, not only for the new owner but for the poor mare as well.

No Ifs Buts or MaybesPeople often say, ‘Never say never when it comes to horse training.’‘Oh but,’ they say, ‘If you’re ...
31/05/2026

No Ifs Buts or Maybes

People often say, ‘Never say never when it comes to horse training.’

‘Oh but,’ they say, ‘If you’re having problems, maybe you’ll need to resort to other techniques.’

I beg to disagree.

No matter how much trouble you’re having with a horse, here are some things that are NEVER EVER okay to do.

It’s never ever okay to tie any horse up to pull and fight.

It’s never ever okay to use restraints or to rope a horse’s legs.

It’s never ever okay to use a flag or a tarp on any horse, no matter how frightened the trainer may be.

It’s never ever okay to run a horse in a round pen in the hope that he’ll eventually come to you or ‘learn to respect you.’

It’s never ever okay to use special halters and gadgets on a horse’s head.

It’s never ever okay to hit any horse around the head with a flag.

It’s never ever okay to saddle a young horse and let him buck around.

It’s never ever okay to leave a horse in a yard with a saddle or a bit and bridle on, in the hope that ‘he’ll get used to it.’

It’s never ever okay to push a horse to the point where he’s sweating and distressed.

Over the years, I’ve worked with hundreds of terrified, badly handled or completely unhandled horses. Horses that chased me out of the yard. Horses that had been taught to kick and fight and buck.

No matter how difficult the horse was, no matter what problems I had and no matter how frustrated I felt, the NEVER EVER list applied in every situation. And it always will.

Please don’t tell me it’s okay to do these things under some circumstances – it isn’t. There are no exceptions.

People come up with all sorts of theories and stories to justify doing cruel and totally unnecessary things to horses.

I’ve heard many ridiculous stories and theories like, ‘I just do this, because I think it’s better / kinder / quicker / easier etc. etc.’

Stop right there – It doesn’t matter what you think, the only thing that matters is what your horse thinks.

Regardless of what YOU think, when a horse pulls back at a post or struggles with restraints or rushes away from a tarp or bucks around with the saddle, he’s telling you that he’s frightened and he doesn’t understand.

So please, stop listening to stories and old wives tales and start listening to your horse.

Your Horse Won’t Do Anything Because He Loves YouThese days, we live in a world of political correctness gone mad.Many p...
29/05/2026

Your Horse Won’t Do Anything Because He Loves You

These days, we live in a world of political correctness gone mad.

Many people say it’s wrong to use a bit or to tap a horse with a stick or touch him with a blunt spur.

“It’s cruel” they say.

This is complete nonsense.

When a young horse is confident and relaxed, introducing a bit, a stick or a pair of blunt spurs is a non-event.

The horse will take absolutely no notice.

Another myth is that our horses love us and want to please us.

This is also nonsense.

Horses won’t do anything because they ‘love’ us.

Horses only want to please themselves.

The truth is, if you’re going to sit on a horse’s back and ask him to carry you around, you’d better be prepared to make that horse do what you want.

Yes, you must make your horse do what you want.

He won’t do anything because he loves you and he couldn’t care less about being your partner.

Your horse cares about his food.

He cares about his friends.

And in every training situation, he cares about making life as easy as possible for himself.

Here are a couple of examples:

1. Some horses learn to ignore squeezes and kicks from a rider’s heels, and run along in the trot instead of cantering when they’re asked.

The only way to make a horse canter on the stride you ask, is to make things unpleasant for him if he runs along.

If your horse takes no notice of a squeeze or kick, you must up the ante and tap him with a stick or touch him with a blunt spur.

Immediately he canters, make things easy and pleasant for him by removing the stick and spur.

Every horse will soon learn that it’s unpleasant to run along, and that it’s easy and pleasant to canter when you ask.

2. Many horses don’t worry too much when the rider pulls softly against the bit or headstall.

They put up with this slight discomfort and soon learn to run home, run away or do as they please.

If your horse decides to run home, you must be prepared to take hold of the bit or headstall and pull him around in a tight circle.

This makes it unpleasant for him to try and run home or run away.

Immediately your horse does as you ask, you must give to make things easy and pleasant for him.

The human perception that bits and sticks and blunt spurs are cruel and frightening for horses is utter nonsense.

Horse aren’t intrinsically worried or frightened by these things.

The correct use of bits, sticks and blunt spurs is essential to reinforce your lessons when necessary.

Always remember, your horse can’t relax unless you’re positive and consistent at all times.

Too Many Horses Can’t CopeDue to bad handling and bad training, thousands of horses never reach their full potential.Man...
26/05/2026

Too Many Horses Can’t Cope

Due to bad handling and bad training, thousands of horses never reach their full potential.

Many horses don’t make it past the ‘breaking in’ stage.

Many others are ‘blown up’ by the use of too much pressure and too much force during their training.

These days, trainers everywhere chase horses with flags, ropes and tarps.

Frightened horses are forced to run backwards in the name of horsemanship.

Countless young horses are saddled for the first time and let go to buck.

Some trainers advocate the use of hobbles, straps and ropes to handle a horse’s legs, others say tying a horse down on the ground will ‘cure’ whatever problem you may be having.

These trainers preach a rigid system of horse training where one size fits all.

If things aren’t working out, these trainers say it’s because ‘your horse doesn’t respect you’,

or ‘it’s in his breed’,

he’s ‘claustrophobic”,

he hasn’t been “desensitised’

or he has a ‘medical problem’.

We’re told that horses have different personalities and you must ‘establish yourself as the leader’.

Just because a famous trainer says something or does something, doesn’t mean it’s right.

Everywhere I go, I see horses that have been through this treatment.

Many of these horses are nervous and worried.

They don’t trust people and they’re always ready to kick, buck, strike and rush away.

The fact is, about eighty percent of young horses will adapt to bad initial training.

One way or another, most of them will work out what they’re supposed to do.

Some of these horses will respond better than others, however many will never reach their full potential.

The other twenty percent never get over the trauma of being bucked out and terrified with flags, ropes and tarps.

They’re unreliable as riding horses and are always nervous and worried.

Some are rejected all together.

Then there are the horses that make it through their early training but are pressured to perform by impatient riders.

It takes years to develop a good campdrafter, dressage horse or showjumper.

Often, people don’t want to wait, so they try and force horses to chase a cow when they’re not ready, or perform passage and piaffe too early, or jump too high too quickly.

Many horses can’t cope with such treatment and become nervous wrecks.

I’ve seen horses ‘freeze up’ and not move at all when they’re ridden.

Others rear, leap away and stop thinking all together.

When a horse doesn’t improve or perform to their expectations, some trainers say it’s because the horse is ‘mad’, ‘stupid’ or ‘disrespectful’ and needs more pressure and punishment.

Many performance horses are ‘blown up’ and become rejects, simply from the use of too much pressure and force.

Just because a famous trainer does something, doesn’t make it right.

It’s never right to chase horses with flags, ropes or tarps at any stage of their training.

It’s never right to saddle a young horse and let him buck.

It’s never right to rope or strap any horse’s legs.

It’s never right to force horses to run backwards.

Instead of using pressure and force, how about going to your horse and rubbing his head.

It doesn’t matter how old your horse is or what stage of training he’s at, rubbing his head can never be overdone.

I don’t mean rub his head for 10 seconds then move on to something else.

Spend a few minutes several times each lesson rubbing your horse’s head.

You might be surprised that your ‘mad’, ‘disrespectful’ horse is not mad and disrespectful after all.

In fact, you’ll find he’s a lovely horse when he learns to be confident and relaxed with you.

CONSIDER YOUR HORSEBy Neil DaviesDo you think your horse enjoys itWhen you tie him up to fightDo you really think he's h...
08/05/2026

CONSIDER YOUR HORSE
By Neil Davies

Do you think your horse enjoys it
When you tie him up to fight
Do you really think he's happy
As he pulls with all his might

Do you think your horse is having fun
When you chase him from the ground
Do you really think he loves it
As he's running round and round

Do you think your horse knows what to do
When you flap a tarp or flag
Do you really think he understands
Why you hit him with a bag

Do you think your horse kicks for a lark
When you lasso his hind feet
Do you really think you have to win
And dominate and defeat

Horses just don't think that way
They're not looking for a boss
They don't want to fight, they don't keep score
Of who has won or lost

The simple tool we all can use
You know I've always said
Don't be proud, go to your horse
And rub him on the head

A Catchy PoemBy Neil DaviesWhen you cannot catch a horseIt's hard to keep your coolYou get so close, he walks awayAnd ma...
05/05/2026

A Catchy Poem
By Neil Davies

When you cannot catch a horse
It's hard to keep your cool
You get so close, he walks away
And makes you feel a fool

Some say each horse must come to you
"Chase him, make him move
Be the boss, don't give up
You've got a point to prove"

Forget the chase, it makes no sense
The problem is his fear
He'd rather keep away from you
He worries when you're near

So keep him in a stable
Go in four times a day
Take some feed and rub his head
Bring carrots, bread and hay

Very soon he'll be your friend
He'll always want you round
And he will catch you anywhere
It never fails I've found

Horse BehaviourThe biggest problem to overcome in horse training is human behaviour.Humans come up with all sorts of the...
02/05/2026

Horse Behaviour

The biggest problem to overcome in horse training is human behaviour.

Humans come up with all sorts of theories and methods, then try to make every horse fit their set lessons.

Many people cling to traditional theories and set methods, no matter how their horses react.

Instead of trying to make horses adapt to theories and methods, we must find what works best for every horse.

We must be logical, impartial, and above all, we must remain neutral in every situation.

Every horse can learn many things.

He can learn to go and stop, to walk, trot and canter when he’s asked, to work cattle, to spin and turn and to perform advanced dressage movements.

Your horse can also learn to run over the top of you, bite you, kick you and buck you off.

You must remember that your horse doesn’t do anything because he’s bad, naughty, spiteful or disrespectful.

Undesirable horse behaviour starts as a response to something that your horse is frightened by or doesn’t understand.

When a horse finds relief by using these behaviours, they become reinforced in his mind.

And so, biting, kicking and bucking become learned behaviours.

When your horse has just run over the top of you, bitten you, kicked you or bucked you off, it’s very difficult to remain impartial and neutral.

It’s very difficult to see things from the horse’s point of view.

It’s really, really easy to blame your horse.

It’s really, really hard to blame yourself.

When undesirable horse behaviour occurs, the natural human reaction is retaliation – dominate the horse, show him who’s boss, teach the horse ‘respect’.

You must overcome this natural human reaction.

When things go wrong, you must stay impartial and neutral.

There’s no point getting upset or thinking the horse needs punishment.

There’s no point making excuses by saying the horse is mad, highly strung or it’s in his breed or he has a special personality.

It’s pointless to blame your horse if he doesn’t respond as you expect, or as your theory predicts.

Instead, you must ask yourself what you’ve done wrong and what you can do to improve the situation.

I’ve trained thousands of horses and in the process I’ve been bitten, kicked, bucked off, run over and a hundred other things that I can’t even remember.

I know that the hardest thing to do under these circumstances is to stay cool and impartial and not blame the horse.

In the heat of the moment it’s very difficult to say:

‘What have I done to make this horse buck?

What have I done to make this horse kick me?

What have I done to make this horse run over the top of me?’

Until you can keep calm and ask yourself these questions when things go wrong, you won’t learn to understand horses.

You must always blame yourself.

While ever you blame your horse and look for excuses, you won’t improve.

Understanding horse behaviour is easy when you learn to control your emotions and blame yourself when things go wrong.

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