11/05/2026
I was supposed to post something yesterday for Mother’s Day and, if I’m honest, I just forgot.
But I still want to acknowledge Mother’s Day, because I want to acknowledge Motherhood. For those who don’t know me, I’m Clare and I’m the founder of Hunde. I’m also the mother of 3-year-old Sunny, and of course my two dogs, Pip and Tex.
Motherhood changed my life in a way that’s difficult to put into words and I am just now starting to see a version of myself that I recognise re-emerging from the ashes of who I was before. Motherhood isn’t just a set of experiences and responsibilities, it’s a complete demolition and reconstruction of your identity, your values, and your capacity - to think, to feel, to cope, to shower.
For me, Motherhood isn’t just about giving birth or raising human children. Don’t get me wrong, this is absolutely a unique experience that nothing else I’ve ever done compares to (both good and bad), and I couldn’t have imagined the profound impact it would have on my life (both good and bad).
But motherhood is more than a sum of the highs and lows, the love, the frustration, the milestones, the overwhelm, the pride, the chaos, the joy, the tears, the fun, the connection and the sheer desperation for just 5 minutes alone.
To mother is an act, not just an identity. Loving unconditionally, community, empathy, standing up for those without a voice, putting the needs of the vulnerable ahead of your own, listening, comforting, creating a better world - these are all acts of mothering. Whether you mother your children, your pets, your friends, or even your own mother - these acts are, to me, what it is to be a mother.
Most of the people who have mothered me over the last few years haven’t been mothers in the literal sense, and most of them never will be. But they formed a part of my motherhood, and without them I’m not sure I would have survived it.
So to all the Mothers out there, and to all of those who mother, happy Day. Thank you for making the world a kinder, safer, warmer, braver, bolder place.