03/06/2026
Did you just get a puppy and now youāre wondering if they accidentally gave you the spawn of Satan instead of the cute, sweet little baby dog you thought you were bringing home? ššš
Welcome to puppyhood.
I see you. Iām living it right now too, but I knew exactly what I was signing up for. Even though I currently feel like Iām in a toxic relationship with a four-legged little bully (pun intended), I absolutely adore her and will do whatever it takes to help her grow into a well-adjusted little lady.
It all takes time, but one of the biggest things you can do is give your puppy opportunities to chill the f@&k out. That usually means having a few setups where both you and your puppy can have some space. Chances are they need a break from you too, they just donāt know it yet.
The first setup is a playpen with a crate and bed inside. Weāve made the whole area a comfy little space where Maple can play, nap, chew on toys, and generally entertain herself when we canāt supervise her. Sometimes I put her in there while I get things done around the house, and other times she chooses to go in there herself. Iāve also noticed after her failed attempts of trying to make Bob play, sheāll give up and go in there to have a play. More often than not, weāll find her curled up asleep after a little play session.
I know this setup wonāt last forever. In a few weeks sheāll probably attempt to launch herself over the pen, but for now itās working beautifully.
Her second setup is her crate. This is where she sleeps overnight and has most of her daytime naps.
Fun fact: puppies need around 15ā20 hours of sleep every day.
Iāll never understand people who think crates are cruel. At just 9 weeks old, Maple will often put herselfee in her crate when sheās tired. Crate training can be incredibly helpful for toilet training, teaching independence, helping puppies learn how to switch off, and giving them a safe space thatās theirs, not to mention, it helps prepare your puppy for vet or groomer visits and times where they may need crate rest after any surgery or injury they may have over there life.
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