13/05/2026
When taking in a rehomed dog, we need to understand their world has changed & everything, including us, is unfamiliar to them. Everything can be so overwhelming in this new situation. As much as we want to cuddle them & help them feel loved & safe, we need to be understanding & ‘give them time’ to settle in at their own pace.
Their world completely changed.
And they don’t know why.
We see their quietness as coping or relaxing so we can accidentally expect too much, far too soon.
One of the hardest parts with newly rehomed dogs is their stress doesn’t always look dramatic.
We would recognise that easily, but some dogs become extremely still and quiet.
Some follow people constantly.
Some sleep more.
Some avoid all interactions.
Others become busy, mouthy, overexcited or unsettled.
We have a job to do from the second they arrive and it’s not about training.
It should be far more about observation.
We should be watching.
Learning who they are.
Recognising patterns.
Seeing what changes their emotional state.
What startles them?
What helps them relax?
What environments suddenly change their body language?
When do they seek distance?
What happens around food, visitors, handling or rest?
They are telling us who they are and how they are coping, often as clearly as they can and we have a duty to listen.
One thing nearly all rehomed dogs share? It’s incredibly easy to unintentionally overwhelm them.
And it’s usually done with the very best of intentions.