15/05/2025
I didn’t realize it then, but I was hoping my dog would lead himself.
What we both needed was… me. ✨
Back then, I didn’t know how much pressure I was putting on both of us.
I thought, “If we just make it through the walk without a meltdown, that’s a win.”
And honestly?
Sometimes… it was.
But white-knuckling through isn’t the same as connection. And even when we did have a good walk, I’d come home feeling like I had to emotionally recover from the tension of staying so on guard.
Once I started treating training like a new lifestyle for us— everything changed. 🥹
What I didn’t realize back then was that structure creates safety — not just for the dog, but for me too.
Once I started leading with clearer expectations and stopped hoping my dog would “just make good choices,” our walks became something we could actually enjoy, mostly.
Because let’s be honest, we all have off days. 😅
The shift came when I stopped asking, “How do I avoid this?” and started asking, “How can I lead through this?” ✨
That’s when the walks got quieter.
The tension dropped.
Once I changed how I showed up, my dog changed how he responded.
And I actually looked forward to walking my dog again.
This is the kind of shift I now teach owners who are where I used to be. 🖤