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Equus with Millie - Accredited Equine Behaviourist Accredited Equine Behaviourist - helping owners achieve a greater understanding of their horses using Positive reinforcement (R+) following the LIMA method.

Meet bear! The rescue pony who had a very sad start to life but a very happy outcome!Bear started life dumped at the sid...
23/09/2025

Meet bear! The rescue pony who had a very sad start to life but a very happy outcome!

Bear started life dumped at the side of the road with two other ponies, all just 5 months old. They had not been properly weaned, were extremely malnourished and had never been kindly handled by humans. 🥺

Luckily for Bear and his friends, a lovely lady in Bushey rescued all 3 of them from a terrible situation and from there, Bear found his new mum, Who had never owned a pony till now! Bears mum has spent months building Bears health and confidence, and has now begun lessons with me to continue to build bears confidence through positive reinforcement training.

The picture on the right was the day that Bear was rescued and the picture on the left was taken on Monday during our second lesson, where we took Bear for his first ever walk out of the yard!! 🤩 he was incredibly brave and loved playing touch on all the signs at the pub, just look at how loved, happy and healthy he is now. 🤩



21/09/2025

A very busy day of training yesterday. One client who was particularly happy to see me was G!

G'S owner wanted to learn and practise how to ride bitless, and has adapted to bitless riding like a duck to water, so much so that G now even has his very own made to measure bitless bridle! 🤩 how handsome does he look!

G is extremely quick at picking up vocal ques through the use of positive reinforcement and has nailed his stop and wait que, however in this particular video you'll see it was just toooo tempting to come over and see me instead 🤣. Who could resist that cute face at the end 🥹.

12/09/2025

Good morning everyone!

After an extremely busy couple of months, I am now off for a relaxing holiday.... to climb snowdon again 🤣

I will be back to work Tuesday morning and will reply to all messages then.

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend, I will leave you with a little video of Murphy and his partner in crime Boston, who both decided to go on an adventure into the woodland early in the morning. I apologise for my high pitched annoying voice but I wanted to share how powerful positive reinforcement training, particularly in this case, voice cues, can be! Murphy knows the 'come' que and they both came flying over to me through the woods and followed me back into the field, despite the luscious grass right beneath him. One repair I didn't want to do first thing.. thanks guys 🥴😆.

11/09/2025

The "difficult" to load horse!

It's been some time since I've made a post on loading, so if you're enjoying your morning coffee and have some reading time, this one could be for you!

As horse owners, there is so much conflicting information on different training methods and trainers using different techniques that it can often feel overwhelming, and you may feel confused looking at these methods when it comes to training you own horse. Unfortunately, there seems to be a lot of misinformation about positive reinforcement and the science behind Equine Behaviour. So to help you all I have explained what I feel are some of the most important points to look at and understand when retraining a fearful horse, from a Behavioural science perspective.

Trigger Stacking:

It’s important to understand that horses cannot learn effectively when they are stressed. And many training methods go against the ethology and learning theory of the horse.

Trigger stacking Is the exposure to numerous negative stimuli which increases reactivity and lowers the horses threshold of what they can cope with.

Understanding trigger stacking and understanding that a horse who is giving you really reactive behaviours is a horse that has come to the end of what it can cope with and has reached the end of its threshold. So, anything you try to teach the horse at that point, is not going to help them learn something positive about changing its emotional state or able to fix any issues that’s causing them to be stressed or frightened in the long term.

It is important when training your horse with a fear to recognise early calming signals and avoid your horse feeling like they need to shout louder to get you to listen. This will really help you and your relationship with your horse when training.

Flight responses in horses can often be seen as a “naughty behaviour” which is where we often see positive punishment. Where the horse is punished for giving a fear or flight response such as the addition of a flag, whip or pressure halter. Unfortunately this is seen in a lot of trainers that don’t understand behavioural science or learning theory of the horse. By making the wrong thing hard and the right thing easy, The horse becomes more stressed and only receives a release when he goes towards something like the lorry for example. The result of this is that the trainer then becomes more frightening to the horse than the lorry and in some cases this can then go on to the horse falling into learned helplessness. (Explained below)

The outcome of this is the owner or trainer gets the results they want but not for the right reason as you have not found the root cause of the horse’s behaviour.

What calming signals should I be looking for to avoid unnecessary stress?

A calming signal is something a horse will show when experiencing low levels of stress, I am always watching out for these when training horses to keep them below threshold as best as I can. Horses show these behaviours to avoid a possible threat or confrontation.

It’s also possible for horses to learn that these calming signals don’t get listened to. So if your horse is giving you a calming signal and it is ignored, they will try and make these signals a little more obvious.

Some of These early signals are;
• Turning head away
• Triangle eye
• Headshake
• Body shake
• Averting gaze
• Avoiding touch
• Licking and chewing
• Consistent yawning

A horse that is ignored when giving these behaviours, reaches above their threshold and is still having pressure applied to perform the desired behaviour can quickly escalate to :
• Rearing
• Biting
• Approaching with ears pinned back
• Extreme tail swishing
• Bolting
• Turning of the hindquarters.

Threshold - what does it mean? Why is it important?

There are three different levels of threshold. Under, At and Over. These three stages are important to understand when working with a horse who has a fear and will help you be more effective with your training when it comes to understanding your horses mental and emotional state.

Below or under Threshold - showing no signs of fear or anxiety towards stimulus.

At threshold - reaching the point where they begin to show signs of fear or anxiety, they are aware of the stimulus presented.

Over threshold - showing obvious signs of Distress, anxiety, or fear towards the stimulus if ignored, this is where extreme behaviours can start to show such as rearing, bucking, bolting.

The Body Language of a stressed horse, above threshold can be:
• Triangle wide eyes
• Constricted nostrils
• Clamped mouth
• Tense facial muscles
• Ears back and lowered
• High head carriage
• Increased blink rate
• Body tension

During a training appointment, I will always look to keep a horse below threshold, keeping the horse settled, remaining calm, relaxed and avoiding unnecessary stress. This is not to be confused with learned helplessness which is when the horse quite literally ‘shuts down’ as a result of not being able to influence their environment or circumstances. The horse tries to show they are uncomfortable or fearful but they fail each time, they end up in a state where what they are trying to do is simply not possible and they give up. They have learned through repeated failure to change the situation, they are helpless.

As humans we can seem to forget that a horse can never lie to you, they can never give you an aggressive facial expression if they do not feel unsettled in some way. They are unable to be relaxed, happy and soft if they do not feel that way. And this is something a lot of owners can get muddled up with as they treat the horse like it has the same cognitive abilities as a human.

I am frequently asked what my loading lessons look like. So here is a video of the lovely Wally, who's owner has allowed me to record each step of our loading process to show you all what that looks like. You'll notice that in some parts of the video, bars are added and doors are shut but they are also taken away at various points. This is to help Wally process each step, although Wally is comfortable with every step now, I felt it was important to show you all how to keep that threshold low.

Wally would previously refuse to load and had some anxiety on the trailer. By breaking it down into bite sized steps, looking for any of those signals mentioned before and using positive reinforcement every step of the way, Wally now loads without hesitation. We even managed to get out for our first drive together since starting our sessions to test if Wally would load again after a short journey. Which you'll be pleased to know... he did happily!

Please note: the front window of the trailer will not be open for journeys, this was a very slow (10mph) drive up the private farm track and allowed us to watch Wally closely for his first drive.

⭐️SPOOK BUSTING CLINIC - 28TH SEPTEMBER - Contessa Riding Centre LLP ⭐️I only have a few spaces left for this clinic and...
04/09/2025

⭐️SPOOK BUSTING CLINIC - 28TH SEPTEMBER - Contessa Riding Centre LLP ⭐️

I only have a few spaces left for this clinic and I haven't even advertised yet, so be quick If you'd like one of the remaining spaces 🤭

This particular clinic is through North Mymms Riding Club, but is still exactly the same, with me hosting, all the same obstacles, and the most beautiful rosettes at the end! 🤩

Information on the clinic is below, to book please follow this link and ensure you have read the show information on the event details page.

https://www.myridinglife.com/eventdetails.aspx?id=518150

What is spook busting?

Spook busting is a fantastic way to help both horse and owner prepare for obstacles they may face out on hacks and day to day life. Completed inhand in small groups of 5 with myself spending time with each individual, I use positive reinforcement and clicker training for the horses that may find certain obstacles 'spooky'. Teaching you how to recognise body language signals and use this method of training when your horse may find something scary at home or on a hack.

Each spook busting session will end with a fun competition and rosettes from 1st to 5th place.

Who can attend?

horses and owners of all abilities are welcome and many people use it as their first outing for nervous handlers or younger horses, due to the relaxed, safe and calm environment. Horses must be over two years old to take part and children under 12 must be supervised by an adult.

Please note: I have had tonnes of messages asking for more dates, I am extremely busy with behavioural work at the moment but I am securing more dates for the spook busting specials (Halloween and christmas) these will be very limited so if you'd like to go on a wait list, send me over a message with your details and I will contact you when I have the dates and venues secured!

Another successful spook busting clinic. This time over at Northill Equestrian at Twin Trees. It was lovely to see a cou...
28/08/2025

Another successful spook busting clinic. This time over at Northill Equestrian at Twin Trees. It was lovely to see a couple of long term clients there and lots of new faces, who all had a fantastic time and were all willing to give R+ training a go, even if they had never done it before.

I love teaching people the science behind the training and how and why it works so that they can see a shift in their horses behaviour during the clinic.

This clinic was my last outdoor clinic before the weather changes and we start to enter dreaded autumn 🥲 Thank you to everyone that has attended a spook buster this spring/summer. There's been more than I can count and I'm looking forward to running much more. Keep your eyes peeled for my special occasions spook busters now that we approach Halloween and then Christmas (cant believe im saying that) 🤭



Tonight is my interview for the Equestrian Business Awards EEEK!! It's so exciting to be voted for a Third year running ...
27/08/2025

Tonight is my interview for the Equestrian Business Awards EEEK!!

It's so exciting to be voted for a Third year running (I must be doing something right 🤣🤭) But seriously, I wanted to just say again, from the bottom of my heart, thank you all so much for taking the time out of your day to vote for me. It means so much to have such lovely clients who want to learn and train their horses in an ethical way, it makes the long days and late night calls all worth it when you can see the trust and bond grow between clients and their horses.

Good luck to all other finalists that are having their interviews too! Fingers crossed for this year 🤞🤞

This pony truly is one in a million 🥹On Sunday we headed off to the Beechwood Equestrian Centre 10 year anniversary show...
20/08/2025

This pony truly is one in a million 🥹

On Sunday we headed off to the Beechwood Equestrian Centre 10 year anniversary show, ready for our Demo on Positive reinforcement training.

Murphy walked straight on the box, was quiet for the whole hour and a half drive, came off the lorry like he had been there a million times, walked past the dressage arena, showing arena, dogs, tent stands, without batting an eyelid. Completed his demo and did everything I asked from him without fail. He even went off with two children who wanted to play with him and his ball. (Although by this point he was absolutely shattered) 🤣

Murphy is only young, and although I did throw him in at the deep end by doing his first demo at the Horsemanship showcase, this is only his third ever demo, it just goes to show how brilliant R+ training is at building a trusting relationship and open communication with your horse, Murphy feels safe with me and I feel safe with him.

Thank you to everyone that watched our demo, the ladies at Beechwood for having us, Shauna Corbett for being dragged along with me and helping, Freespirit Horse Art for our beautiful halter and matching neck rope 🤭 and Miss Marmalade Photography for the beautiful pictures ❤️

Another wonderful private yard spook buster, with a group of 5 lovely women. All of the horses were absolute sweet heart...
18/08/2025

Another wonderful private yard spook buster, with a group of 5 lovely women. All of the horses were absolute sweet hearts and relaxed so well during their spook busting sessions.

Thank you all for having me and to Linda for arranging.

Here's some pictures from the day 🤩


Good morning all! Myself and Murphy are off to Beechwood Equestrian Centre 10 year anniversary today!For those of you co...
17/08/2025

Good morning all!

Myself and Murphy are off to Beechwood Equestrian Centre 10 year anniversary today!

For those of you coming along, here's a schedule of our demo, starting at 11am, over in the Beechwoofs Grass arena 🤩

🕚 11:00 – 11:45
Introduction to Positive Reinforcement
• What it is and how/why it works.
• How to get started (and common mistakes to avoid)
• Different ways it can be used/clearing up. misconceptions.
• The science: equine learning theory explained

🕦 11:45 – 12:15
Q&A Session
• Your chance to ask any questions, do you have a horse with a particular issue?

🕧 12:15 onwards
Have a Go!
• Step into the arena and have some fun with Murphy!
• Try target training for yourself
• Learn how to use subtle body language cues with no pressure, using Murphy.
• Or, bring your own horse in to explore target training/touch Training and how to reward them correctly.

Today I got to go back and visit one of my first ever clients, Rosco! Some of you might remember rosco when he first arr...
16/08/2025

Today I got to go back and visit one of my first ever clients, Rosco!

Some of you might remember rosco when he first arrived with his loving family many years ago. At the time he needed some confidence going out alone so his little rider Ruby could take him out.

Well.. Ruby isn't so little anymore (she's now the same height as me 🤭) and has gone on to do amazing things with Rosco! Since then there has been two more additions to the family girl gang! 😁 so today I went back to teach little Lottie how she can get rosco into trot without pulling him, ready for the children's sunshine tour!

This family is very close to my heart so it was amazing to see them all again. Good luck Lottie! Remember to keep those knees up! 😆


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