04/06/2024
Yesterday.
One blind, one unrideable.
What an amazing day and clinic!!! Every horse is an opportunity if we let them be, let them change us. Over the course of 7 hours we worked together.
So thankful for these clients coming in and sharing such a unique journey…. Beginning with me.
Months ago phone calls and conversations began to tell me the stories of Cash and Gilly.
Cash, an 8 year old was purchased knowing he was blind in one eye- but his owner did not know he would soon lose his vision completely in the other. Very shortly after purchasing cash’s sight went to total darkness.
I admire, and respect his owner who has taken this on as a challenge, a new journey to figure out as she navigates something new for both of them- and me. Yesterday we spent our first time together exploring how to help cash lean on her, trust her through feel but without any of the help vision gives us. With cash there is no space barriers, he can’t respond to my head tilt- or intention through distance- everything changes. How we lead, how we stop, move, how to find softness. It was challenging as he is quite forward and anxious since his vision left entirely. But she knew who he was before- and we need to help him find that!!! He has become VERY strong through his neck, so I gave her some tools to work with to help him on lead, then to help his anxious feet and teach him that I’m asking for for softness safely and with some distance- we began long lining (long lining for a blind horse allows you to help them on both sides of their body, where lunging can just make them dizzy, and doesn’t serve a strong purpose without visual)It took a long hour - but a good one as cash started to understand through my hands that I can help him relax, lean on me, let me help you to feel safe- quiet. I can’t wait for our next session!!! 🤍 His owner has begun learning the new skill of long lining to help him and build connection with him.
Gilly.
This older pony has been on a long journey. Her prognosis years ago not good, and circumstances that seemed unchangeable- her owner made an incredibly difficult decision to sell her. The details will be kept short- but Gilly has been through many places, unfortunate training techniques, in attempts to ride her. She has defeated every place she has been too- whether from pain, or lack of preparation this girl learned to buck, and buck so well that no one has been able to use her. And she fell from one hand to the next, some well meaning, others I’m not sure. Either way- I don’t need her story to see what’s presented in front of me.
Gilly hit the round pen with zero interest in connection. Her owner, will never sell her. She is home. And she is dedicated to whatever outcome, rideable/unrideable- but she wants to find her girl under that shut down mind that she once taught how to open up.
That’s the hardest part here, I’m getting stricter in my lesson/training program. I want to work with those that want to learn to teach their own horses. Gilly was an untrusting pony, her owner- showed her how to trust a bit, helped her to open up, got her to want to be around her- started to build trust. But what this pony learned going through many places all focused on breaking her- is to shut down, disconnect entirely.
Yesterday- we began, just slightly the journey to restart connection. I always love the first times a horse decides “hey it’s not so bad with you,” and begins to soften. Gilly began some much needed steps- but I found some very concerning pieces of her training missing or shaky/ if I was going to ride a horse. Bolting/running from fly sprays, whips touching or rubbing on flanks, or lower legs sent her spinning full tilt, flag around or over her and she would stiffen up and get ready to panic.
One thing I try to press intensely- dont stop your lesson where they get it right. Stop where they feel good. Stop where they get soft/relax. Her owner went home with a full basket of concepts to help Gilly be brave. We didn’t stop just when the brave girl stilled her feet, but when she could lower, breath, relax, shake it off etc.
Gilly has alot of medical testing behind her, but no one can give a definitive answer as to if she is unrideable/or just learned to buck. So we are taking it one step at a time, listening to her- taking one day at a time.
Thank you so much for the opportunity Heather and Nikki. What Amazing owners you both are!!