
11/07/2025
July is Disability Pride Month! If you've been here awhile you probably know that I am disabled.
What you don't know is that it took me a long time to embrace that as a unique and wonderful part of my identity. I had to work through internalized ableism and the way the world treated me because of disability in daily life. I had to learn how to self advocate. To understand the laws and programs that protect people like me and how to access them and ensure their enforcement. To live well alongside my disabilities, to recognize my worth, cope with them and find joy. In other words, it has been a process. A long process.
The reason I'm transparent about these things is because I want other people to know that there can be hope in self employment for those of us who don't fit the standard mold of the workforce. Working is sometimes possible when we are given the freedom to accommodate ourselves fully and unapologetically. Is it hard? ABSOLUTELY. Does it feel impossible sometimes and impact my bottom line, also yes. But I do this for the joy of it. For the connection to my clients. For the possibility of making my disabled life better with the help that money can buy.
Let me be really clear though, disabled people are worthy and valuable, period. I was just as valuable when I could not work as I am today as a business owner. If you're sitting at home unable to work I want you to know that you matter. That I am glad for every cent of my taxes that goes into making sure you have what you need. That as the government attacks our rights, protections, and the supports that keep many of us alive, I am thinking about what it means to show up for people hit the hardest by the changes that are coming. Because years ago, I would have been one of those people. I know how terrifying things have to be right now.
If you are disabled and facing the prospect of having to change your living situation to stay afloat, and that living situation requires integrating dogs, please reach out. I have scholarship spots for you.
For my clients and followers, thank you for supporting my small business. There were many years of my life where I thought working was never going to be in the cards for me again. Instead you've given me years of slow and steady growth. Every dollar you spend here changes my life. It pays for things like cooling vests, anti nausea watches, prescription sunglasses, cooling/compression clothing, prescription medication, piles of electrolyte powder, grab bars and a hundred little things that make my disabled life easier to live with a lot more freedom. Wherever I can I try to pay that forward by providing scholarship services to disabled clients and assisting disabled people in my community. This Wise Mind Canine adventure has been truly life changing and I am grateful to get up and do this job that I love every day.
Disability Pride, disability rage, disability joy, disability wrath: It's okay to have complex feelings about Disability Pride Month. But recognizing Disability Pride Month is so important! Here's a few reasons why:
- Civil rights protections under the ADA have existed for only 35 years - and are still under attack.
- Disabled activists have fought for decades to protect those rights and continue to do so.
- Disability is not a "tragedy" or a "fate worse than de*th"
- Eugenics is still the default
- Ableism, including internalized ableism, is still rampant
- Disabled people have inherent value, and our communities are resilient
- Celebrating our lives and our joy is important in a world that thinks we don't matter.
Disability Pride Month is about cutting through the isolation so many disabled folks experience, celebrating who we are, and (re)committing to the fight for our rights and value to be recognized.
Of course, being disabled can suck. Living in chronic pain and fatigue and not having access to places and things isn't easy. But that doesn't mean our lives aren't valuable and worth living.
You matter. We'll keep fighting and celebrating for you!