30/03/2026
Yesterday capped off a very busy week for the Berry Boys! Both Blueberry and Raspberry went to Kentucky Horse Park last weekend for the Paul Frazer horse show, and Masterson Equestrian Trust (MET) yesterday for Daffodil Dressage.
Raspberry was just there as an observer, taking the opportunity to hand walk and graze around both parks and get the vibes of busy horse show environments. He was completely unfazed by both experiences and was absolutely perfectly behaved. I don't expect he will have any difficulties when he comes here next time with a saddle on.
Paul Frazer was, objectively, a bit of a disaster for Blueberry and I. I think I'd always believed that when I got into a more relaxed headspace at shows, his anxiety would...perhaps not disappear, but at least melt some. He was serene schooling and in warm-up but came completely unglued as we made our way around the outside of the dressage ring to begin our test. I think that what started as a spook and skitter turned into frustration on his part when I sat up, kept my hands wide, and insisted that we were going to ride forward as if nothing had happened. All too often, a bit of animation or worry on his part backs me right off and I let the reins slip and give up piloting. This time, I decided, I would be grounding for him by riding as though nothing had happened, and I think he found that frustrating. We spent all of both tests arguing, with quite a lot of bucking. It was horrible. I dismounted that day questioning how much I wanted to keep doing something that could be so completely unfun on days like this.
But yesterday was a full redemption. The weather was chilly and windy and the warm-up rings were full and busy. Blueberry and I both had every excuse to tighten up, but we didn't. We stayed loose and happy and put in two solid tests. It was such a joy to ride in the ring with the same peace and focus I feel when we're schooling at home together. THIS was fun. And to top it all off, we were high point The Jockey Club Thoroughbred Incentive Program OTTB for First Level! Life as an amateur dressage rider can be a rollercoaster sometimes, but every ride I take with Blueberry is worth it.