30/06/2025
Confession: I used to be that person, the one judging others for their “poorly behaved” dogs until life handed me "that dog", the one that ignited my future
So I get it. When we raise the perfect dog, it feels like we won the lottery. Society celebrates it, trainers praise it, and neighbors envy it. The ribbons, the titles.
Winner!
But here's what happens when we worship at the altar of the "always good dog".
We become 'those people'. (You know the ones):
🐾 Smirking at embarrassed, struggling handlers pulled this way and that
🐾 Gossiping about "inability to handle that breed" or some such nonsense
🐾 Dispensing unwanted advice from the pedestal of perfection
Those poison arrows you shoot at "unprepared" dog parents? They boomerang right back into you.
Meanwhile, we're missing something crucial: The most profound transformations happen in the mess, not in perceived perfection.
Your dog's "misbehavior" isn't something to hide. It's an invitation to get messy, feel it, and own your part.
Celebrate it.
The person wrestling with their reactive dog? They learn to take responsibility when their soul has something important to share, to own their emotions tied to the dog’s reactions.
The one working through separation anxiety? They're developing deep empathy and emotional intelligence. Maybe they’re learning to slow down or to own their own fear.
If you're blessed with a reactive, anxious, or otherwise "imperfect" dog, you're being called to listen to the message deep in your soul.
You're being called to unlock your greatness, to know yourself, and to own your powerful gifts.
Would you rather be the person who never faces challenges, or who knows how to navigate them with wisdom?
Next time you feel lost, overwhelmed, or sad about an incident with your imperfect dog, pause.
Don’t hide.
And don’t sweep emotions under the rug.
Own your real story instead. And share it.
Your authenticity might be precisely what another struggling pet parent needs to hear.