
18/07/2025
Your Friday Tidbit: Looking Back to Go Forward
How many times have you heard “don’t live in the past?” It’s as if everything in the past is bad. As if going back in the past is going to haunt your present and future. Now I understand we all have past skeletons in the closet that we have to deal with. Some worse than others. But what about the great lessons or stories of the past that ignite your future? The stories that every time you tell it, gets you excited to relive it.
In my teen years I didn’t hangout with many kids my age. I always found more value listening to the stories of people older than me so I could learn something. Some of my favorite times in life is just swinging my feet on a tailgate as I get engaged in a great conversation. These are the times
people unveil their true selves. That’s when you get the real value from someone. When the conversation just flows naturally.
Wingmasters has made me relive so many great things and bad things. The reason being is that I needed to remember what it was like when I first started learning each process of dog training. That way when I write a manual and film each process I can remember what it was like when I was first learning it. Those feelings of frustration I had in the past is what i’m trying to not let happen to the people who buy any Wingmasters program. Clarity is my ultimate goal. Let me tell you finishing editing a 68 page Fetch Process manual, clarity is what you are going to get.
Rumorville can’t help itself! At recent Hunt Test there was a rumor floating around about me being hard on dogs with a E Collar. The person told a story about me 10 years ago. So when I was asked about it from someone who heard it, I simply said, “yes, I WAS”. I WAS is the key word there!! I was honest with them and myself that in the past I was harder on dogs with the E Collar. But the key phrase there is IN THE PAST. I learned along the way. When you learn your suppose to evolve. The only way the rumor would bother me is if the past was still the present. It simply isn’t. If someone holds something on you from your past it’s because they are too ignorant to evolve themselves and they want to hold you there with them…. Sound familiar???? They only hold you there if you let them. They can stay back there, i’m not there anymore.
I’ve always been 100 percent honest with myself of my past. To me the past is like a reflection of oneself. I look back there to remind myself what I don’t want to repeat and what I do want to repeat to continue being successful. The past is where you acquired your knowledge. That knowledge is what makes you who you are and how successful you will become, provided you use your past to propel you forward.
Past dogs taught me what I need to do to train the present dogs. The reason anyone is good at what they do is because of past experiences. I get all the calls of people wanting to give up on their dog. They call me as some last ditch effort. I usually have the answer. Why? Because in the past I had to deal with that problem, figured it out, worked through it and logged how I accomplished it.
There is a famous line of a kid that is sad looking out the back window of a car as the family is moving away. The father driving the car says, “son, don’t look back there, we’re not going that way.” Great advice for the kid at the time. But I would hope later on in life the father would say, “look back there, so you know where you came from, and where you are going.”
Wingmasters
Michael D Vaughn
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