07/31/2026
Thank you all for the extremely kind and compassionate comments and messages about Bop’s passing. I haven’t been in the right mind frame to read them all (let alone respond), but I have seen quite a few expressing concern about Boop, Bop’s biological brother, so I wanted to let you all know how he is doing.
Boop definitely knows that Bop is no longer here, but it’s hard to say how that is affecting him. He has been checking out Bop’s favorite spots, almost as if he’s looking for him, but he does not seem overtly “sad,” as we saw in Dora when Azzy died or in Azzy when his brother, Nero, died. That said, he’s been more affectionate and has been seeking out snuggles more than usual, which tells me that he knows something is “off.”
While Bop and Boop were very close as kittens, they were not bonded, and as adults Boop started to gravitate more towards Hagrid and Pokey for cat affection, but I think the brotherly bond remained and Boop is confused by Bop’s absence.
I am struggling to adjust to a world without Bop, but I’m so glad that Boop (and Pokey, Hagrid, Dora, and Gus) are still here.