10/29/2026
🐾 Sometimes, the Best Lessons Aren't the Ones We Planned. ❤️
Yesterday morning, Puppy and I stopped at McDonald's. I ordered some food, and we settled onto a bench outside so I could eat.
Several people walked past us, and Puppy paid them little attention. Just what I would expect from a service dog in training.
But then a woman and an older gentleman stopped nearby. The gentleman was clearly interested in the puppy, and the puppy was equally interested in him! In fact, Puppy was so determined to get to this man that he was pulling toward him and pretty much ignoring my requests to settle and ignore.
When the woman asked if my puppy could say hello, my immediate response was my usual, "No, I'm sorry. He's practicing to be a working dog." But something made me reconsider. I couldn't explain it, but Puppy seemed unusually drawn to this particular gentleman. So I changed my mind.
"You know what? In this case, I'm going to let him say hello. He seems to be alerting to something, although I'm not sure what."
The woman looked puzzled and asked what I meant. I explained that Puppy seemed to feel a very strong need to greet this particular person, and I wanted to see what happened.
As the gentleman began loving on Puppy, the woman leaned over and quietly whispered to me that he had dementia. I later learned that he was 93 years old.
Did Puppy somehow sense something about this gentleman? I honestly don't know. Dogs are incredibly observant, and sometimes they respond to things we humans don't even notice.
What I DO know is that Puppy absolutely made this gentleman's day. And judging by the enthusiasm of the greeting, the gentleman made Puppy's day, too. ❤️
I spend a great deal of time teaching the puppy that he doesn't need to greet everyone he encounters. And that's an important lesson! But yesterday reminded me that training isn't always black and white. Sometimes it's about knowing your dog, reading the situation, and making a thoughtful decision in the moment.
And sometimes, a little connection between a 93-year-old man and a young puppy is worth bending the rules for. 🐾❤️