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27/08/2025

He was found in a freezer, barely breathing. But something in his eyes whispered, “Don’t give up on me.” And we didn’t.

His name is Tucu, and he was the size of a rolled-up towel when we pulled him out of that freezing dark. I wrapped him in my coat, my hands shaking, unsure if we were already too late. He didn’t even shiver — just lay still, as if he’d already used up everything he had to survive.

I whispered to him the whole ride to the vet, though I don’t remember what I said. Just… please. Please stay.

The vet’s office smelled of antiseptic and a kind of hope I hadn’t felt in years. They worked fast. They said his heart was still beating, but barely. His blood was all wrong. Anemia, they said. Hypothermia. Muscles that had never had the chance to grow.

They didn’t know if he’d make it through the night.

I sat beside his little bed and watched his chest rise and fall like the flicker of a candle. I thought of Max, my old dog, long gone now, and how he’d stare at me when I was low — the kind of look that says I see you, and I’m here.

Tucu had that same look. Even then, even in pain. I gave him his name that night. Something soft. Something kind.

The next few days were a blur of IVs, transfusions, late-night vet visits, and more silent prayers than I’ve said in a decade. Every small thing felt like a miracle. When he licked food for the first time. When his tail moved. When he tried to stand on those fragile legs, like twigs trying to hold up a storm.

Someone at the clinic said, “I’ve never seen a puppy so pitiful.” We all cried. But Tucu didn’t. He just looked at us with those wide, honest eyes — like he already knew he was safe.

And little by little, he started to bloom.

His skin softened. His fur grew back — thin at first, then fluffy and brown like warm toast. I gave him a red ball, and he looked at it like it was from another world. Maybe it was the first toy he ever saw. I rolled it. He twitched. It was enough.

He started taking steps — wobbly, uncertain. I’d hold him up with both hands, cheering like a lunatic every time he moved an inch. Then one day, he stood all on his own. I swear, he looked right at me like, Look what I can do. I laughed out loud. The first real laugh in weeks.

Now, Tucu runs.

Not fast. Not far. But he runs. He chases leaves. He plays. He sleeps with his belly up like he owns the world.

He’s not the puppy from the freezer anymore. He’s just Tucu — my goofy, resilient, beautiful little friend.

I still think about the man who left him there. I don’t care what his excuse was. Tucu’s story isn’t about cruelty. It’s about survival. It’s about second chances. About being seen when you feel invisible.

Tucu is proof that even when the world turns cold, love can thaw the deepest freeze.

Meet Tucu and watch the full video in the first c0mment. 🐾

25/08/2025
Needs $2500 to help rehab Champ!
21/08/2025

Needs $2500 to help rehab Champ!

I hate to make posts like this, but sometimes, when you have a rescue organization like ours ....you do things you hate so the horses can have all that they need to be healthy and comfortable!
This photo is Ira Champ. He's a saint of a horse! Kind, willing, and smart. Recently, Champ had all of his X-rays done to make sure he will be capable of a new career. It was found that Champ has 2 areas on his spine that will need a ligament snip surgery.
We were already having problems with his feet, so he's now wearing clogs to aid in healthy foot growth.
We would like for Champ to be rehabilitating both his feet and spine at the same time. It will be less time with restricted exercise if we can do this for him.
However...a ligament surgery is not in our budget. Champ needs your help. If we can just raise even $2500. toward his surgery and rehab....it would help us a lot! And Champ won't have to go through 2 periods of restricted exercise!
He's happy and comfortable now with his new shoes, and our vet thinks he should be fine if this surgery is done while we are rehabbing his feet.
Please consider helping us to help him, as he is the sweetest saint of a horse and we want what's best for him!
You can donate through Zelle, (405-802-1312) PayPal ([email protected]) or Venmo (-sullivan-57)
Thank you!

17/08/2025

👀*PLEASE READ*👀

(Pic of puppies for attention. This litter is from last Fall and have ALL been adopted.)

Yesterday, I posted about 2, 6 month old, fearful puppies that ended up at the shelter together. I also stated they would NOT be adopted together. That comment seems to have sparked A LOT of questions as to why. Soooo, it tells me that this is a and I do believe that as rescues, we owe it to the dogs, and to the community, to provide education on responsible dog ownership practices (among many other things), so here goes.

Littermate syndrome is a VERY. REAL. THING. If you currently have littermates and all has gone well and you've had ZERO issues... kudos and good for you! That's fantastic! However, as a rescue, we get dozens and hundreds of owner surrender requests per week. And, let me tell you, Littermate Syndrome behaviors are one of the most recurring topics for surrender.

Of course, for a "breeder" to sell littermates, it's a DREAM! They get to get rid of 2 puppies (or more) at once. Mostly, all they care about is money and being able to get rid of a litter as quickly as possible with little regard for ethics and the long-term well-being of their puppies... they breed for profit... PERIOD. I would go so far as to say that even rescues that would adopt out littermates are acting irresponsibly, UNLESS there is A LOT of education that's taken place AND there's a plan in place should things go arwy.

Again, if you have littermates and it has never been an issue... kudos. However, to hear the accounts of families that are completely torn and divided over having to choose WHICH of their family members they've had for the same exact amount of time, has to "go" because they are fighting to the death (and because there have been human injuries/bites sustained in the process), is ABSOLUTELY HEARTBREAKING... HEARTBREAKING. It is like choosing between your children... impossible.

Therefore, as a rescue, we have always maintained that littermates do NOT get placed in the same home. Period. We've had many, many litters over the years, and believe me, people have asked, yet we've always stood firm on that... littermates will NOT be adopted together.

It has long been a desire of mine to try to make educational posts about the issues that seems to be recurring themes for owner surrenders: leash reactivity/aggression, separation anxiety, resource guarding issues (this is a BIG one), dietary concerns, nail trims, etc. Yet, what I always seem to lack is TIME. However, since yesterday's post seemed to elicit the same response from so many, I thought it would be beneficial to talk about this while we have the audience.

Please know that we do EVERYTHING in our power to set our dogs AND their adopters up for success. NOT placing Littermates together is one of those things.

Did you know that most of our owner surrender requests are people that have gotten their puppies from GREEDERS (that, OF COURSE, will NEVER take them back later) as puppies, because THEY wanted puppies so THEY could "raise them and train them" and little training ever took place, the puppy got huge, out of control, is still intact and is not too much and they just can't handle it. They can rarely, if ever, afford a reputable trainer, no work or effort has been put into it. The puppy simply grew up and now is no longer a "good fit." I cannot tell you how often this scenario repeats itself.

Is it possible to successfully have Littermates coexist? YES... it is... but it is NOT easy... and we're talking Danes... NOT 5 lb yorkies. The amount of time, effort, consistency, routine, etc., that it takes to make it successful is truly something that is not for everyone. Most can't do it with one, much less 2.

I will provide some links to articles that discuss "Littermate Syndrome" and I definitely welcome (respectful/courteous) comments, as well as your own experiences, good and/or bad, as this is an opportunity for others to make an informed decision BEFORE moving forward with littermates, should it be something they are considering.

https://extension.psu.edu/littermate-syndrome

Understanding Littermate Syndrome In Puppy Pairs – Texas A&M Stories https://share.google/CvNb34JbEXIeKyTHX

https://www.thedogsway.co.uk/journal/littermate-syndrome

29/07/2025

Meet Asta! 🐶 This 8-year-old pitbull mix is a total sweetheart with a heart of gold and a tail that never stops wagging. She’s got years of love-giving experience and is ready to be your loyal sidekick. Couch cuddles, gentle walks, and unconditional love? Asta’s got it all! 💕

29/07/2025

It is so hard to take any joy in even the smallest of victories anymore when our current situation is what it is. Everything is beyond overwhelming.
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A message to the public:

WE have dogs that don't get along.
WE have financial hardships.
WE move.
WE have divorces/failed relationships.
WE have neighbors that complain.
WE have health issues that interfere with our ability to care for the dogs easily.
WE have "life circumstances" that change.
WE have loved ones that die.

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WE... DON'T GIVE UP!
WE... ARE NOT SUPERHUMAN/SUPERHEROES
WE MAKE THE SACRIFES!
WE SHOW UP!

WE are just average people like YOU. We don't have special abilities, knowledge or training to be able to deal with YOUR dog/s better than you.

Please... as rescuers... as animal welfare activists... WE ARE DROWNING!

LIKE... DROWNING IN DEEP WATERS WITH NO LIFERAFT IN SIGHT!

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IF you want to "help"... KEEP YOUR PETS. DON'T GIVE UP ON THEM! They don't get along? Honestly, that's probably YOUR doing... sooo, do what WE do... swap dogs... keep them separate and have a divided house. Is it easy? Nope! But, take responsibility and accountability for what YOU created. CALL A TRAINER BEFORE CALLING A RESCUE OR DUMPING THEM AT A SHELTER. Have a Senior pet? See them through until the end! Don't abandon them when they need you most. BE THERE to help them transition to the afterlife just as they have been there, UNCONDITIONALLY, for YOU through life's trials and tribulations.

Every day gets harder and harder. Every day seems more hopeless. Every day the need is greater and the help is less.

Rescuers are burning out, quitting, and literally dying while doing this work. TRY to do your part in some way... no matter how small... TRY. The current crisis we are in is a societal problem... a problem created by YOUR family members... YOUR coworkers... YOUR neighbors... YOUR friends! DON'T stay silent about what is going on... SPEAK UP... AND SPEAK LOUDY! It may just make all the difference... even if for just ONE outcome.

~Erika (a heartbroken rescuer in despair)

*Any hateful comments will be deleted and/or blocked.

📸: By yours truly

Illinois
29/07/2025

Illinois

*ADOPTED*

Would someone find it in their heart to let Molly come into their home and live out her remaining senior years? Sweet Molly came to us last week because her Dad went into a nursing home. Molly is very sad and depressed and we would love to get into a home as soon as we can. Molly is a 16yr old female BorderCollie! She is housetrained. She wouldn't mind being the only dog in the home so she can get all the love and attention she deserves. If you are interested in meeting this beautiful girl please fill out an application online at www.rivervalleyanimalrescue.org!

23/07/2025

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