11/10/2025                                                                            
                                    
                                                                            
                                            Working with horses both training and teaching humans over the years I think a lot about how to communicate with horses and humans about horses. Itâs a key for relationship and with horses we are learning another language that is also mostly nonverbal and often times (at least we hope) very subtle. Building our awareness as humans is a cornerstone. 
When I teach Iâm realizing more and more this is both my quest for understanding and primarily what I am trying to teach humans about.  Sure riding technique and how to feed and walk with and care for a horse but ultimately the core is about learning these deeper skills. Some people call it âfeelâ, I would go as far as calling it sacred. These pieces can dramatically improve all of the other pieces . Itâs the thing Iâm always trying to improve my skills in and the piece Iâm always trying to figure out how to teach to the people I work with. 
Working on how to listen and communicate with another being that is so different than us in so many ways, as well as how to communicate in ways that make sense and promote learning how to function well in the predominantly human world (letâs be real, almost entirely we ask horses to function  within our ideas). Horses are often big and powerful creatures and for the most part incredibly kind and forgiving- humans relied heavily on these qualities. Many horseâs spirits also lend themselves to be âbrokenâ making them compliant with our ideas- they have mastered the ability of dissociation. 
Learning to truly partner with a horse is quite possibly the true art of horsemanship.