08/21/2026
Your dogâs first language is body language, not English.
The mistake I see most often is saying the word and moving your body at the exact same time, a hand lure, a turn toward the bed, a lean, a point. If that happens at the same time as you say the word, your dogâs notices the movement, not the word. Body language will always overshadow your words. Itâs what tells your dog whatâs about to happen next, so itâs what they learn to watch for. The cue never gets the chance to mean anything on its own.
So the sequence I use is:
1.Say the cue
2. Pause
3. Then lure or guide into position
4.Mark + reward the moment they nail it.
That pause is what lets the word, not the movement, become the thing that predicts what happens next.
This video of Zeus is a great example.
At this point he already knew how to get on the bed and lay down, and he was in the fading stage.
I say the cue, pause, and then just give him a small body motion instead of a full food lure.
Next heâll start anticipating: âevery time she says place, the next step it to get on the bed and lay down.â
Heâll start guessing right more often, the connection to the word will solidify, and Iâll be able to fade my body help out even more.
This is a process, But itâs how you end up with a dog whoâs actually listening to the word not just reading your hands.