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StableManners, LLC Quality instruction, focusing on classical dressage with purpose, for the rider and horse.

Strong foundation and experience in teaching horsemanship, equine behavior and biomechanics. I take special pride in the amount of patience I have with my students, both equine and human. I am always furthering my education through lessons, clinics, classes and independent studies, both within and outside of USDF. I am a resident instructor at two St Louis area barns, and am available for clinic scheduling and as a schooling/unrecognized dressage judge. At this time, my schedule is full for weekly students (I do have a waitlist), and I am booking clinics for the spring/summer 2023.

10/30/2026

Bits are not intended to be brakes but many people think that a stronger bit is the way to get a better stop out of a horse. The purpose of a bit is to help the rider to better balance a horse and correct balance is how to get a better stop out of a horse. The balance needed to achieve a good stop is to get the horse's hind to reach more under his belly.

The most common reason horses do not stop effectively is that they are heavy on the forehand. As a result, they stop by primarily using the front legs and shoulders not their hind. Ironically, one of the reasons a horse gets heavy on the forehand is strong harsh bits.

When you use a harsh bit to stop a horse it compresses the horse from front to back. This shifts a horse's body weight forward onto the front legs and they are forced to stop with their forehand because the hind cannot reach under themself to stop using their hind legs.

Because many riders do not understand how a harsh bit puts their horse onto their forehand that creates a poor on the forehand stop, they think that they need an even harsher bit and they buy one. But it doesn't work because the horse can't stop effectively using its from feet and shoulders.

Good stops come from good balance with the hind engaged. In other words, when the horse is ridden hind to front, not front to hind, we see crisp precise halts. Ultimately the cue for a halt is a deep seat and a simple halfhalt.

The way I fix these stumbly forehand stops is I ride horses that are heavy on the forehand down a slope. I sit deep and lean back 5 degrees and give them a halt command with the reins on the slope. Their usual impulse to stop using their front legs and shoulders on a slope feels uncomfortable to them, like they might fall forward on the knees. The steeper the slope the more uncomfortable stopping using their forehand becomes. But be careful, some stubborn horses will fall onto their knees.

Going to a more severe bit to get a horse to stop usually makes a horse's stops worse. The answer is to teach them to use their hind, not their forehand, to stop. It's about balance and you need a bit that helps them engage their hind to balance for a better stop.

So let’s always do all three!
10/27/2026

So let’s always do all three!

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10/23/2026

There is a point in every devotional practice where the practitioner stops performing the practice and starts living inside it. Monks go silent. Runners go long and alone. Riders, if they are honest with themselves, eventually stop needing an audience for the work at all.

I have said for a long time that dressage is not a sport so much as a discipline of attention, that the horse is not something we train so much as something we listen to, and that the listening gets better the more we turn inward and the less we perform it outward.

It occurs to me that most of what matters in this practice never makes it into an essay. The best moments with a horse are usually the ones with no language attached to them at all, just a guy understanding his horse a little better than he did the day before. I used to think my job here was to help translate that into words every week. I'm less sure of that lately. Some weeks the truer thing is just to go be quiet with the horse and let the essay stay unwritten.

So: go be quiet with your horse this week and let it stay between the two of you.

Until the next quiet thing teaches me something...

10/23/2026

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St. Louis, MO

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Tuesday 9am - 7pm
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Friday 9am - 7pm
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